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From: (Not Displayed) Received: 5:34 pm on May 13, 2008 Return to Inbox
Subject: suicide
Hi, I'm having severe problems with someone very close to me, who's wanting to commit suicide very soon. What can I do to stop them?hey mean too much to me for them to just go.

It's becoming too much, I need help, and very soon. Again, I'm not doing this for myself, I need to stop this pact that she has with her best friend. They're dead set on killing themselves this weekend, and I can't take it.

Please help :( .

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Again, I would back the other answers written but I also want to say that it sounds as though your friend is pleading for help in a way as she has told you. It is in everyones best interest to tell someone with authority about her plans and to intervene before it is too late. Try not too be brutal and forceful as she obviously needs someone to be understanding and sympathetic to how she is feeling. However, don't let her persuade you into anything and make sure that the situation doesn't get out of hand as you don't want to upset her too much. Perhaps arrange to meet up with her or have her sleep round yours for the weekend to keep her mind off things and advise she goes to see a councellor.

Posted at 8:18 am on May 15, 2008
Hello,

I know what you're going through is very difficult.  Obviously this friend has put alot of trust into you by telling you their thoughts about suicide.  It's extremely important that you realize that you must break their trust.  When the safety of others is at risk, you must report it.  Talk to a parent, trusted adult, teacher, guidance counsellor, police officer - whoever will be willing to help!  Suicide is a major problem facing people today and it must be put to a stop.  Your friend might hate you for now for breaking their trust - but one day, they'll realize that you did the right thing!

Good luck

If you need anything else, or anyone to talk to, know that I am here to help and you can message me anytime.

Posted at 5:52 pm on May 13, 2008

I hope you understand how serious this is.  A young person wanting to end their lives, in my opinion is one of the saddest things in this world.  They have so much to live for, and so much more to get out of life.

What I am going to suggest you do is going to make them hate you.  It is going to not make them your friend anymore, but you need to do it.

Tell the authorities, or more specifically tell an adult (preferably from school, such as a counselor) who will know exactly who to contact.  Years down the road these people will thank you, but you need to act now.  You cannot wait for this.  The power of a group is stronger than the power of one.  They will be more likely to go the entire way with it than if one of them was by themselves.

If you would like to talk more about this, please feel free to email me at spartan4eva@gmail.com.

~Shaun

Posted at 5:41 pm on May 13, 2008

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