If you are not slightly interested then you need to be straight and tell your boyfriend that you want nothing to do with a threesome with your friend or anyone else. If he's a good boyfriend then he'll drop the idea immediately.

If you are not sure about it then i would put it off as well. Only do it if you are 100% certain that it's what you want. Don't let your boyfriend pressure you into doing things sexually, because you do not need to. If he persists with it then you need to rethink your relationship. Any guy who puts his sexual needs above his girlfriend is not a guy worthing keeping.

I wish you the best of luck and hope that all goes well.

-Cara

Posted at 12:36 am on May 15, 2008

But I'm guessing from the fact that you're creating an eHelp about it you don't want to do it. You should feel comfortable enough with your boyfriend to tell him that you don't want to do it and explain why. If he's a good boyfriend he should understand. If he doesn't and tries to persuade you to do it against your will, don't just do it anyway to keep him happy, do whatever makes you happy.

It shouldn't cause too much of a problem and if it does then the relationship probably isn't going to work in the future if you can fall out about something so trivial.

Posted at 8:37 am on May 14, 2008

Simply explain to your boyfriend that you are not interested in having a threesome with your friend (or anyone, if that's the case).  If you are not enough for him or if he can't see past the sexual aspects of your relationship, than he can move on.  Don't debase yourself just to gratify his lust.

Posted at 6:19 am on May 14, 2008