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From: (Not Displayed) Received: 10:09 am on May 14, 2008 Return to Inbox
Subject: i need your advice please
well I don't know if you think this important but I do. there is this guy I like, and I want to go out with him. two people say it sounds like he likes me but I'm not sure. Friday me, him, and alot of people were hanging out. and he was like majorly flirting, and hes not the kinda guy that flirts all the time. but yeah what should I do to get him to like me? don't want to force him to but I want him to. so yea what do you think I should do?



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As you said, you cannot force someone to have feelings for you. Sometimes it can be impossible to determine how someone feels about you purely from the way they are behaving. You need to ask outright or put him in a situation where he needs to say that he likes you or not.

If you have a feeling that he may like you then pursue it, go for it. You have nothing to lose. Ask him the question. When you and your friends hang out again, make sure you and him have a really good day and at the end get him on his own and have a 'truth' with him. Tell him that you think you like him and that you think he likes you too.

Or you could subtly ask him on a date, like ask him if he wants to go out for the day or round your house to hang out. If he says yes to spending time with you on your own then chances are that he likes you back.

I wish you the best of luck with this. If you need to message me then please do.

-Cara

Posted at 12:27 am on May 15, 2008

I think it is important that you raised this issue as I am sure that this is very important to you personally. I think the main thing you need to think about here is that you cannot make somebody like you. Romance only ever works if it is two way and the person you fancy fancies you back. If he is flirting with you then this is a guy's well of saying that perhaps he likes you but if he is not making this obvious, then maybe it would be an idea to ask him straight. This is the only way you are going to get a true idea of whether or not anything is going to happen between the two of you.


Posted at 12:07 pm on May 14, 2008
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