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From: (Not Displayed) Received: 10:37 pm on May 15, 2008 Return to Inbox
Subject: idk wat to duh...idk wat to think..
im 18 my bf of 1 mnth in march broke up wit me we bn talkin on&off for bout a yr it was a great relationship we had a clean break up 1 week after we had sex an still remained frens bcuz I'm not emotional enuff for him.November gone I met this other guy(not through him but is a fren of his) that I instantly liked we bcame close frens but no flirting ntn. the last weekend in april we ended up making out in the back of my car at a party...where 4 of our other frens was making out (2 in the front seat & 2 sittin on the trunk) and we felt left out so we started makin out then agen on mondeh an we had sex on thursdeh we remained very close frens.2nite now my ex texted me an told me the other guy told him bout our hookup bcuz he needed to get it off his chest.wat must I do?ow must I talk to him.i kno it hurts him bcuz he still has feelings for me.i for him but I am liking the other guy more.wat can I say to make things better - I feel terrible...am I a whore? proboly cum off as 1 but they r the only 2 I ever bn wit. I feel like a whore...i always sed I won't ever turn into 1 - I regret everything now. I need help... plz .

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One thing i have to say, is don't regret anything as it all happens for a reason! To be honest, you don't sound like a whore you just wanted to be with another guy and it's only understandable.

Personally i don't think you owe your ex anything, as you have no need to talk to him about your sex life as it is your business, which you can keep to yourself.

I know you say you feel bad but that is because you know that your ex boyfriend still likes you, however there isn't anything that can be done about it's something which he has to deal with. One thing is that at least he was honest tat he knew not many guys would be.

Don't feel terrible you are single and have none to answer to. So try not to regret what happened as we can't change the past however we can change our future, but that's if we want to.

Hope it helps ever want to talk I'm here.

Posted at 7:35 am on May 17, 2008

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