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From: (Not Displayed) Received: 2:11 pm on July 5, 2008 Return to Inbox
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My friend is driving me mad. she won't stop fighting with me, I don't know how much more I can take with her.

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Firstly you have to figure out why the two of you keep fighting because if you don't know why you are fighting then how can you be expected to resolve any issues which you do have.

Within a friendship there will always be times where you think "how much more can i take" however I'm sure if the two of you can communicate you will sort out your problems. The truth is the key to any friendship is communication. If can't communicate with a friend how can you ever sort out the problem which is causing you to fight.

Whether you are arguing over a guy, school, what to do, another friend it can be sorted. If it is over a guy, he mustn't be worth it if it's causing two friends to argue. If it's over school then maybe you two need a breather from one another because sometimes being around the same person for long periods of time they can become irritating. It's all about talking however if you feel like it will blow into an argument take  10 seconds to breath calmly and say you want to chill out a bit then come back to it when you are both ready.

The only real advice i can give to short this friendship out, is talking because once you get what's bothering you off your chest and your friend has done the same then the pair of you can start to patch things up so it's tolerable to be with one another.

I hope this has helped, and if you want to talk to me once you know what the problem is and ask how to resolve it feel free to message me as I'm here to talk.

*Emma*

Posted at 6:32 am on July 6, 2008

Well, figure out the reasons why yall are fighting. Is it over a guy, a teacher, another friend, the movies, what exactly is it? Then, try to reason with her when things like that come up. You can walk away from her, tell her you need to call her back, and just take a moment for yourself. Then when you're cooled off, you can call her back and calmly talk about whatever it is that's bugging yall.

Posted at 8:44 pm on July 5, 2008
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