Yeah I think it's pretty much normal to be worried about moving out from home and stuff. Moving to an unfamiliar envoierment and school, but that's life. I think that you should really just get the positive attitude right from the start, when you actually are there. Because the first impressions are very important, and there's going to be a lot of kids in your position.. moving out to some place they know nothing about. No friends or family no nothing. So the odds are that you'll make friends with little effort in no time, as long as you are self confident and social. Taking part in discussions, asking to hangout with people and stuff like that.

There's also another aproach to this, it's to get a hobby. Start playing some sport or something, tone up your body and stuff. That's what all the chicks like, haha. If you haven't already been working out or playing some sport, you'll be suprised how far the hobby gets you. It will get your mind A LOT brighter, your problem solving is going to get a lot faster.. and just generally you'll be feeling a lot better. Besides you're bound to get friends that way too! Sharing the same interests with people, makes sure you'll be having a good time anytime you meet. (I'd really recommend fight sports/ martial arts) They'll boost your self confidence in no time.

Well yeaah I don't really think you have good chances with that chick. Mainly because of your atittude! If you don't have any faith that you're ever going to meet up or anything, then why are you wasting your time on her? But if you're serious about you and her then just go for it.

Anyway I hope I helped you out some, good luck dude

Posted at 11:56 am on Aug. 13, 2008

As far as the girl, you have to do what you feel is right. Not only does she need to be happy but so do you, and you both have to be happy to continue the relationship. If you feel like it's not working out then you should end it, and there are ways to do it without hurting her, but you have to explain why you're doing so. It seems to me though that if you are talking to her everyday and texting everyday then the two of you have something going and I think you should continue to work on it. By talking with each first (and I don't know how long you've been doing this) yes it will make both of you more anxious about that first meeting, but at least you won't be going into it as total strangers. You'll already know quite a lot about each other so you would have that going for you. You also have to take into consideration the distance - if she's 7 hours away now, will that decrease or increase once you're at college? We can't tell you what to do, but if you look at all the circumstances and follow what your heart tells you to do, then you will make the right choices.

Posted at 10:22 am on Aug. 13, 2008