My suggestion to you is to relax first.  Don't hype yourself up about the event itself.  Do something that is going to calm you down.  A warm bath and some romantic reading is the stereotypical method.  Then just do what feels good.  If you find yourself getting distracted, try doing something else that feels different and good.  Hopefully you'll find your natural rhythm before it's all over.  Once you know how to get yourself off, it's all down hill from there.  You just have to get through the awkward discovery period.  Every one, girls and guys, go through a time when they don't know exactly how to come to an orgasm and it requires a little trial and error.  Don't be afraid of the error part.  It's just you and whatever you've brought along in there.  No one else ever gets to know unless you want them to.

Posted at 5:35 pm on Aug. 15, 2008

You should know that girls like it different ways.  There is no set way to get a maximum experience.  However, you can try different things.  As far as fingers go, you have to find the ways yourself.  Try different things.  Some things hurt one girl and pleasure another.  See what I'm saying?  The most basic technique is to massage the clitoris.  This can be done circular motions.  So try different things and see what your comfortable with.

Here is a site to help you further.  It can explain each way to masturbate.  And it has different techniques to use fingers.

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Good luck,

~jamesish~

Posted at 4:27 pm on Aug. 13, 2008