My ex and I had gone out for almost 2 yrs until a week ago.. he called it off. We had a big fight about something I don't remember.. and we just became distinct from there. Couple days later, I learned that he wanted to break up.. I was so hurt.. and am still hurt from it.. When I ask him why he says it's because we have too many problems and he's sick and tired of dealing with them and the way its never truly resolved because we always have the same problems..
He goes on saying he doesn't want to be in a relationship right now because he doesn't want to be expected to do things all the time... so basically he means he's not ready for a relationship..

My question is.. why did it take him 2 yrs to realize he wasn't ready for a relationship.. we've been through so much... how can he just throw everything all away like it never mattered.. I tried talking to him.. telling him I cared for him.. told him i loved him, told him I would do anything for him and that we can work on this together... but he says "u're willing to work on it with me now when you could have worked with me when it mattered the most?".. i do admit.. i never really cared so much back then.. and that could have been the reason why he's so angry.. but i feel like if he gave me another chance i can be different.. because i kno wht i want and i need him..

But he fails to listen to me.. and no matter wht I say to him he just wont take me back...he keeps telling me that his feelings for me are gone... and when i ask him to be with me.. he says not now.. what is tht even supposed to mean?? not now? does tht mean later on yes? he's so confusing me.. and recently.. he's been doing all these things like texting me and telling me how certain songs make him think of things he should have said to me in the past... he also says how he sorta misses the things we had with each other...

if he doesnt want to be in a relationship rite now.. but he keeps doing these things.. what does tht even mean????