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in love with a hook up buddy ...
Replies: 1Last Post June 25 6:37am by emma19911
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A couple of months ago I started hooking up with my friend. We always had sexual tension between us so it was a big relief. Now we hang out all the time because his best friend is dating mine. His house is like a chill out place, so I'm always there. 2 weeks ago he brought this girl there and they hooked up. That literally broke my heart. He has done that before and so did I,but it never hurt me. Everyone tells us that we should start dating. My friends all tell me that he looks at me differently, and I see that too. He respects me more than any girl. We are best friends. The only difference is that he is my whole world now. I know that if we were together we'd complete each other. I don't know if I'm really asking for advice. I had to let it out though. I'm in love with him, but he doesn't want a relationship :( Things suck a lot

3:07 pm on June 21, 2008
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He doesn't want a relationships, then there isn't much you can really do to be honest because it sounds to me like his mind is made up.

People might think it would be better if the two of you are together however it has to be something you both want, which he doesn't. Maybe talk to him about it however I'm assuming the reason he doesn't want to be in a relationship is because he's enjoying having fun with different girls and doesn't have ties to them.

The fact that you have fallen for him it shows that maybe you can't handle being hook up buddies now because your feelings have gone past the "just wanting sex" stage. So try and distance yourself from him a bit it might not be the easiest thing for you to do however maybe it is the wisest, because you don't want to fall deeper when the guy doesn't have the same feelings.

You might have them moments of looking at each other and know you should be together, however right now it's not an option so save yourself some heartache.

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