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Replies: 4 — Last Post May 12 5:29am by teng

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( Lulamae )

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It's not exactly a problem, because it hasn't had time to really develop. whenever I do anything sexual with my boyfriend I feel like a wh*re afterwards. I enjoy it in the moment, but feel dirty afterwards. I think it's related to my past abuse/rape, which he knows about. We're both virgins, because he thinks that I shouldn't make myself too "scared."

Now that I've told him about these feelings I have he says that we'll take a complete break from those kinds of things. I appreciate that he does this for me, for us. But don't want to keep him waiting. I know that he just wants me to feel comfortable with him, but there must be another way.

I am seeing a therapist, so no one suggest that. I need at home solutions.

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go slower? like, don't go past kissing or only go as far as what makes you comfortable. but don't worry about it, he said he would wait so he should if you feel weird afterwards.

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Well, you do realize it's about what you're comfortable and ready for, not about keeping him waiting? If it were a simple matter of "at home remedies," psychologists and psychiatrists would be out of business. You need to come to terms with whatever demons haunt you about this and the best way is with your counselor. As you already know, you have to separate out whatever happened in the past from your current life. Until you can do that, the demons will come.

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I don't see what we can do for you, any more than your therapist. We can't give you a soloution.

It sounds like your boyfreind is the understandng type. Don't try to force yourself to be doing things that are uncomfortable just for him.

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teng

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try not to freak out... i mean, you want to.. he's your boyfriend so i believe there's no way that that makes you a whore

5:29 am on May 12, 2008 | Joined May 2008 | 1 Days Active
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