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Shyness and low self-esteem
Replies: 18Last Post July 1 3:58am by somelikeitred
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I'm shy, to the point where I sometimes find it difficult to look people in the eye, but my self-esteem isn't that bad. I wouldn't say that I completely adored myself, but then again, I don't hate myself like I once did. I'm kind of in the middle. Therefore, how can it be possible for me to be shy? I thought you were shy if you felt really, really, insecure or something.  

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howaboutsno


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uhm well if u were once very insecure or unhappy with the way you look then i think it is still possible to be shy because of that.
I would like to think ofmyself as an outgoing person, but i still have this kind of paranoia that people don't like me and that i annoy them, so i kind of unintentionally distance myself from people.

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some ppl r just shy its not about low self-esteem

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labayk


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its a fear and inferiority complex...

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Quote: from labayk at 8:57 am on May 9, 2008

its a fear and inferiority complex...

Yeah,that would make sense actually.

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its good to see common sense in a lesbian female

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Quote: from labayk at 9:21 am on May 9, 2008

its good to see common sense in a lesbian female

What's that supposed to mean?  

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Quote: from Ad libitum at 1:28 am on May 9, 2008

Quote: from labayk at 9:21 am on May 9, 2008

its good to see common sense in a lesbian female

What's that supposed to mean?  


ha ha. just complemented your appreciation. i quite surprise to see common sense in a lesbian. i have met many. but girl i tell you. they are so different its kind of like they were lost

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Wealthy Hobo
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Quote: from labayk at 9:30 am on May 9, 2008

Quote: from Ad libitum at 1:28 am on May 9, 2008

Quote: from labayk at 9:21 am on May 9, 2008

its good to see common sense in a lesbian female
 

 What's that supposed to mean?


 

ha ha. just complemented your appreciation. i quite surprise to see common sense in a lesbian. i have met many. but girl i tell you. they are so different its kind of like they were lost


Lol,yeah. My ex was pretty lost  

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I'm shy but I have plenty self-esteem. Not to the point where I have trouble looking people in the eye (although I don't see how it's a necessity for conversation), but self-confidence =/= extroversion.

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battleroyale


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Someone who is loud and outspoken could be just as insecure as someone who is shy. The two words don't mean the same thing.

As for why people are shy is like asking why we laugh, it's just natural.


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your not really that shy...i've never considered myself to be insecure when i was shy...that's almost depression...just smile when around people..
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that sounds like me. I'm a little shy (especially over the phone) and I have very low self-esteem. I suffer from Asperger's Disease and my brother has severe Social Anxiety Disorder...pm me if you like :) and be happy

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