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Girlfriend N Bestfriend PLEASE HELP
Is it normal that i get this bothers me?
Replies: 10Last Post May 9 1:37pm by LoveKay
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So my girlfriend of slightly long time and best mate of forever are friends.

I mean like really good friends, they talk to each other more than I talk to them both combined it seems.

Anyways my girlfriend isn't very social, but she is around him (me too, but not relevant) and he invited her over to his house some friday to hang out.

Just the concept of how much they talk bothers me, let alone I only think the worst because I never really know what is going on.

Do I have any normality at all to have this thing bother me? Expecially because they had a sorta-dating fling about 3-4 years ago.


12:33 pm on May 9, 2008
kapitankat


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That would definitely bug me.

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brokenpromises93


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its ok to feel like this but dont make it to obvious... my last boyfriend accused me of following him and my best mate...i was insulted because i never would....i have more of a life,,, thats part of the reason we broke up...so jus dnt go blurtin stuff out 2 her...pm if u need more help

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patziiilla


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yeah maybe something is going on

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( Anonymous )

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Quote: from patziiilla at 3:39 pm on May 9, 2008

yeah maybe something is going on

I don't believe anything is going on, because they have been very good friends for a couple years. It's just as of recent she mentions something about him in every phonecall i have with her or something like that, she is always txting him, and i don't mean to be jealous or worried, but it's exactly how i feel.


12:40 pm on May 9, 2008
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or maybe her boyfriend isn't usually there to talk to much and just sorta blows her off when she tries to say stuff...but your friend is there to talk to anytime..

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moonkin


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Same thing fucked over my mates relationship with his gf as his other mate talked to her lots

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Quote: from Anonymous at 12:40 pm on May 9, 2008

Quote: from patziiilla at 3:39 pm on May 9, 2008

yeah maybe something is going on

I don't believe anything is going on, because they have been very good friends for a couple years. It's just as of recent she mentions something about him in every phonecall i have with her or something like that, she is always txting him, and i don't mean to be jealous or worried, but it's exactly how i feel.


so she talks to him more then you
she talks about him in every conversation she has with you

thats not right

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It would really bug me.

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Sarge


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That would really bother me.

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LoveKay


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Whether you should worry or not depends on the type of relationship they have. Have they been friends longer than she has been dating you, and longer than you have been friends with this other guy? If so, you shouldn't really talk like that.

I have female friends who have very good guy friends and they are their best friends. There isn't anything wrong with that, and she probably sees him as one of his best friends and he just so happens to be a guy and not a girl. The reason she mentions him in her conversations with you most likely has to do with the fact that they talk alot.

How long have you and your girlfriend have been dating for? If it bothers you, you should ask her about it, but don't come off as you want her to stop--that would just be plain stupid.

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