LiveWire Network Peer Answers Peer Support Teen Forums Tech Forums College Forums 472 users online 184940 members 699 active today Advertise Here Sign In
TeenCollegeTechPhotos | Quizzes | LiveSecret | Video | Dictionary | News | FAQ
You have 1 new message.
Emergency Help
Until you sign up you can't do much. Yes, it's free.

Sign Up Now
Membername:
Password:
Already have an account?
Invite Friends
Active Members
Groups
Contests
Moderators
4 online / 26 MPM
Fresh Topics
  LiveWire / College Forums / College Dating & Relationships / Viewing Topic

I Now know Where I Stand...
Replies: 5Last Post June 13 11:35am by Dave310
Single page for this topic Email Print Favorite
( swtpie )

Wealthy Hobo
Reply
I've been with my boyfriend for over 5 years. i love him to death. I want to get married and have kids. I want to spend my life with him.

Well, the last couple months he has seemed differently, like I'm not that important. It's all about him it seems.

Well, out of everyone I know, we're the 2nd longest to be together. Well, the last year everyone I know has been having kids and getting married.

It has kinda hit home, made me realize i want to move forward. Maybe get married.

Well, we were lying in bed and I said, "We should get married." and he said, "why". He said it like it was beyond stupid, etc.

Now, I was only kidding, but his response really upset me. It seems like most people out there, he assumes something 'better and brighter' will come along. He is scared he'll say "I do" and then meet his perfect women.

It has really upset me. Cause, I know he isn't the most brightest guy out there, or the hottest, but I love him...and it doesn't seem he feels the same. like I'm on the side lines until his perfect women walks through the doors...


7:51 pm on June 12, 2008 | Joined Mar. 2008 | 137 Days Active
Join to learn more about swtpie Alberta, Canada | 2507 Posts | 4056 Points
snowcone200


Connoisseur

Patron
Reply
I hope you wasn't with him for five years of your teenage life lol.

lol maybe he is comfortable with being with you right now. But it don't mean he is ready or thinking he could possibly marry you. He dosen't wanna get his hopes up maybe.

-------
---*[LwWife]LazySouthSideHyna*---


7:53 pm on June 12, 2008 | Joined Mar. 2007 | 172 Days Active
Join to learn more about snowcone200 Georgia, United States | Label Free Male | 5858 Posts | 7640 Points
( swtpie )

Wealthy Hobo
Reply
Quote: from snowcone200 at 7:53 pm on June 12, 2008

I hope you wasn't with him for five years of your teenage life lol.

lol maybe he is comfortable with being with you right now. But it don't mean he is ready or thinking he could possibly marry you. He dosen't wanna get his hopes up maybe.


We started when I was 15, he was 17.

He was actually the first to bring up marriage and this was 2 years ago. He has changed so much in the last 6 months.  


7:58 pm on June 12, 2008 | Joined Mar. 2008 | 137 Days Active
Join to learn more about swtpie Alberta, Canada | 2507 Posts | 4056 Points
snowcone200


Connoisseur

Patron
Reply
Yeah, well people change a lot in the teenage years I think. You know physically and mentally :(

-------
---*[LwWife]LazySouthSideHyna*---

7:59 pm on June 12, 2008 | Joined Mar. 2007 | 172 Days Active
Join to learn more about snowcone200 Georgia, United States | Label Free Male | 5858 Posts | 7640 Points
samsung123


Personal Assistant
Reply
that is really sad...
guys that wont commit are dumb.. its like they just can't love you and they hope something better comes..
its so immature and i think they need to grow up.


good luck

-------
Oh baby if i was your lady...


8:00 pm on June 12, 2008 | Joined June 2008 | 16 Days Active
Join to learn more about samsung123 Minnesota, United States | Straight Female | 47 Posts | 209 Points
Dave310


Grasshopper
Reply
people grow up and move on. Don't rush marriage, it is a big step. If you force it on him, you will regret it. Just communicate with him and tell him how you are feeling.

11:35 am on June 13, 2008 | Joined June 2008 | 3 Days Active
Join to learn more about Dave310 United States | 5 Posts | 35 Points
Single page for this topic Email Print Favorite

Quick Reply

You are signed in as our guest.

Looking for something else?
 

  LiveWire / College Forums / College Dating & Relationships / Viewing Topic