I've been with this guy Devan for about a month, and we've had sex twice. He's really great, but he's a year and one month younger then me. I know I want a relationship, and he just wants to party. I know this, but it's like I can't get him out my head, and I can't stop running back to him. He really does have me right where he wants me.

We are "together" without a title right now. It's really hard when he says stuff like "I'm really jealous so I don't want to know what you do, and I won't tell you what I do". We have talked about it and that means we can go on dates/kiss other people... BUT NO SEX with anyone else.

We both work in the mall and every time I get ready to walk by to go to work he grabs my hand and kisses me in front of everyone.  

BUT-- One time I went there and asked "Is Dev gone yet?" and his friend/employee said "yeah, and your like the 5th girl that's come to see him since".
i asked him about it and he laughed, and said "are you serious" then just looked at me and kissed me and told me not to worry about it.

Nowwww(whew), my questions are:
Am I wasting my time?
Is he going to settle down for me?
Does it seem like he even cares?
What's going on in his head?

Post edited at 9:51 pm on June 13, 2008 by PrincessPegs21

He may be waiting for you to ask him to "settle down" with you. It can't hurt to ask.

It seems like he cares to me, but I hardly have enough information to tell. I have no idea what is going on in his head. He is the only one who can tell you that.

If you are looking for a serious relationship it doesn't seem like this is the best situation for you. Obviously it is bothering you though, so I really think you should talk to him about it, even if it is just casually.

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=) Stephanie

He might want to be with you =)

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Lets Play Carpenter.. first we get hammered.. then i nail you! ♥♥