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i'm losing my baby
why me :(
Replies: 23Last Post Jan. 9, 2007 8:53pm by MsCaesi
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Sorry to hear that hun but it was probably natures way of telling you something was wrong.... Take it easy and relax....  I am sure when you and your body are ready you will be a beautiful new mom some day! Good luck , I am sorry for your loss and God bless!!!!

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Quote: from Hyacinth at 11:26 am on Nov. 6, 2006

Quote: from kazzy0300 at 8:44 pm on Nov. 6, 2006

im 18...they said that my next pregnancy will have a 95% chance of bein fine...i had an abortion about 2 years ago...could this have affected it?

No, i highly doubt the abortion would have affected this.


actually, theres a big chance of miscarriage if you've had an abortion in the past.

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it depends on how brutal the abortion was on your uterus. that could be a reason if it was done roughly or maybe there is something else wrong with your body, the body is made to protect the baby. if there was a problem in the making, then it's not your fault or your boy's fault or anyone's fault. Many things happen for reasons we don't understand and this is just one of those things. but punishment is not what this is. maybe it's a blessing that you aren't having a kid. i mean, maybe it could be good for you. what would happen if you had a deformed baby? you would be even more sad then, right? Just know that this isn't the end of your life and tomorrow will come.

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Opps i did it again, i played with your heart, got lost in the game, oops you think i'm in love, that i was sent from above! I'm not that innocent!!

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I'm really sorry to hear that!  That is just horrible to hear about.

And guys, she said nothing about an abortion so cut it out.  Wrong timing for the subject.

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DONT BE UPSET would you rather have a baby with lotsa genetic malfunctioning .....

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Life throws us some curveballs every now and then. As hard as it may seem time will pass and things will get easier give yourself a few years and try again. Give your body time to heal and recoop. Use this time for you, love yourself, live for yourself do things that will make you happy. Go to a spa get a facial and/or a massage. Through the hard times we learn to apreciate the good times and look forward to those. If you need anything write me, I will be there for you.

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Nobody knows for sure why miscarriages happen hun. I know that every part of your being wants an answer as to why, but there isn't one in this case. If you continue to search for one, you'll start making up reasons -- like your abortion -- and punishing yourself for it. It was NOT your fault. Thousands of women who have never had abortions unfortunately still suffer miscarriages. And women who have had 2, 3, 4 abortions or more have perfectly fine pregnancies and healthy babies.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

http://www.silentgrief.com/
Might be a good website for you to check out.

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Im so sorry for your loss. Everything does happen for a reason. The pain may be intense right now, but perhaps in the future you will look back and be thankful that you were able to fulfill your dreams. Sometimes it is too hard to pursue your goals when you have a child. You have plenty of time to have another child, not one to replace the one you lost, but rather another one to treasure as your own.

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