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Replies: 17 Last Post Nov. 12, 2006 10:37am by DefaultTo0
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2% |
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18% |
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( katyduck )
mr bean on crack
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I've been seeing huge levels of activity in the eHelp over the past few months, and was curious as to why exactly we've such a surge. People are frequently getting 15-20 ratings per week, and often replying to more than that. People who were never on the Most Supportive Members are suddenly hitting the top, and I'm wondering why, all of a sudden, SLs are loving eHelp so much. Don't get me wrong, it's brilliant, really brilliant, to see people so eager to help others, but I'm wondering why there is a sudden rise. I'm responding to eHelps less frequently nowadays than I have been beforehand, as are many of the previous members who used to be the most active in eHelp. So what is this recent surge in activity swelling from? We've always been eager to help others, and many of the frequent responders have been SLs for a long time, so surely it's not solely for that reason alone. Would you say it's because of the ratings, or the charts? Maybe competitiveness? Or is it because eHelp has more traffic than before, and that more and more SLs are responding? What drives you to spend so much time in the eHelp as opposed to in the support forums? 90% of those topping the charts are never setting foot in TDEI - I scour every post in their every day - so it's clearly a supportiveness that is only there in the eHelp's presence. What is your personal motivation? Please do elaborate. An obsession with ratings isn't necessarily a bad thing.
------- "God kissed her on the cheek and there she was."
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I Am the Underdog
Wealthy Hobo
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Its summer time: where all bored out of our fricken' skulls.
------- Your kisses are as kicked as a m16.
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( katyduck )
mr bean on crack
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Most Americans are back at school by now though, right?
------- "God kissed her on the cheek and there she was."
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JennyColada
I'm watching you.
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I think it's like half and half. A lot of schools start in early September.
------- So when you're happy (Hurray!), or sad (Aw!), Or frightened (Eeek!), or mad (Rats!) An interjection starts a sentence right.
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I Am the Underdog
Wealthy Hobo
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Quote: from katyduck at 2:28 pm on Aug. 25, 2006
Most Americans are back at school by now though, right? 
I start septembre 5. I would rather it not affect my eHelp time, but I'm afraid it will as my schedule will be basically: School, 9-3 Work, 4-9 Homework, 9-11 Dinner, 11-11.30 Bed. I'll be the one making eHelps...
------- Your kisses are as kicked as a m16.
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dovelove
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I really haven't replied to many eHelps lately. Maybe one or two, but not as much as I could. When I do reply, it's because I know that I can help in some way, and that I have opinions and suggestions that I can contribute to the person who needs help. For example, most of the relationship/sex ones, I don't reply to because I'm just not as good in that area. Depression/emotional/cutting ones, I tend to reply to more frequently because I can relate and have intimate knowledge about those subjects. I've been trying to post more in TDEI; it's really important that SL's reply there as well as eHelp; you're still getting a point for making a reply by posting. I don't like the points system. I worry about people replying so much mainly because they want points or are having a competition with someone, and to me, that's not what eHelp is about. I'm thrilled that people are replying so much more, now, but I really hope that most of the replies are because the person wants to help, and can offer good advice and support; that's the reason (or it should be the reason) people are Support Leader's in the first place.
------- When I play doctor, I play to win.
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Kuzaki
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I don't know why I respond to eHelps, to be honest. I think it's mainly because of the satisfaction I get out of being able to say "yeah, I did my best there. Let's hope their situation gets better". I'm quite the opposite of dovelove in that I don't like to answer depression, cutting and emotional eHelps because I don't like the pressure of knowing that this person's life is, effectively, in my hands. If I suggest they do something, they go and do it and it makes the situation worse then I'd feel unbelievably shitty. Whereas with hygiene, fitness, sexual matters, relationships etc. I know exactly what I'm talking about and I feel I can give sound support using my knowledge. I remember on a previous account I was a support leader and I absolutely detested the Serious Forum. I don't know why, it just didn't feel as comfortable as the eHelp system does now. I'm not very fond of ratings or receiving points for eHelp replies, but I understand the reasons for them being there. It's a big boost for support leaders to know that they are considered to be the most supportive person on LiveWire, and it's encouraging those without as much feedback to really give their best shot in their eHelp replies. I'm not really bothered by feedback, hence why I don't appear in the most supportive members. I just enjoy knowing that I've helped. If I pick up some feedback on the way, good for me. There also seems to be a lot more people looking for support at the moment. I have no idea as to why that might be, but not a minute goes by without another flashing icon alerting me about a new eHelp request that needs an answer. In answer to your question - all of the above.
------- The Pastafarian. I want some apple 3.141...
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2:04 pm on Aug. 28, 2006 | Joined Aug. 2006 | 307 Days Active Join to learn more about Kuzaki England, United Kingdom | Bisexual Male | 10834 Posts | 18246 Points
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AmazingRed
Lame.
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I dont know. I havent only recently became a Support Leader so this whole thing is a new experience to me. Although I like to post advice because of my Natural competetivness to have the highest amount of replies, but also because I like to give advice.
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sophiethelibrarian
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I think everyone has their own motivation for replying to them. It can be something simple like the points, or more to do with the ratings. My principle motivation was that when I was diagnosed with my cancer, I had no-one to talk to. And if you ever know what that feeling is like, to feel totally and utterly alone as no-one will understand how you're feeling, then I always think there might be a couple of people here thinking that way - and if I can help them, and take that lost feeling away, that's good. Yeah, it's true to say I am motivated by the ratings, because in the main, it's an indication that I am doing ok and the advice is good. I think many people, if they're being honest, would agree that it did motivate them too. I know some don't like the rating system, but I promise with every ounce of life in me, if you scrap the rating system, replies would drop at least 75% if not more. It's human nature. This was my reasoning behind my post to elaborate on the rating system slightly. Everyone likes a good competition, and even the e-mail you get from the moderators if you come 1st, 2nd and 3rd calls it a '..Competitive Competition each week' , or something along those lines, so I am not imagining it :) I truly think it's amazing that we want to help our peers, and that for little reward, people dedicate much of their spare time wanting to be there for someone they don't know and will never meet. You will always get one of two who nearly spoil it, but that's what we're here for. To set a standard and to make sure we don't drop from that standard. It may be that I hang my keyboard up soon for a little while. I have had many negative comments from some, even 1 or 2 mods at times, maybe it's time to take a break from it for a while. I will let someone know at the weekend if that's what I decide to do. But there is such a wonderful group of people here, and you all work together in the main to give a service that you can't get anywhere else. You all should feel so proud.
------- I will pick myself up, Dust myself off And leave all this sadness behind I'll be fine, I won't be blue...
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