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Actually, this is something you wont hear me say often, I agree with that list... well, I'm a girl and I'm straight, but I don't think it's total BS or anything.

Right on

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I'm not saying being straight is BS, i just think the whole... "Am I Bi" shit that comes up on LW daily is terrible. If you kiss someone of the same sex, you shouldn't be branded for life or whatever. I'm straight :) And it's not that I couldn't date a girl that was 'straight', but it's just that I find that most of the girls that i'm REALLY attracted to at some point tell me, "Hey i'm Bi you know that right?", or "I'm also attracted to girls".

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The guy didnt say that the girl had to meet all of his requirments did he know.  But good luck if he does wont a girl like that it will take years of searching

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Well, it's kinda worth waiting for the right one isn't it? Actually i've found a girl that makes me very happy. She's missing a few of the 'requirements'  (She's 6' tall, and has 36D breasts, but they fit her really well), and her being tall is actually really hot. i love it. Anyway... she's matching pretty much everything else. Not too much of a geek (just a bit), but everything else is perfect!

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You fogot to add to turn offs.
Girls that wear glasses IN buildings to look cool.

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While I know that there's plenty of lists and stuff, hell i thought to start my own. Maybe this one wouldn be good enough eventually for a stickie :)

The top 10 things that girls do that turn me on/interest me:

1) Bisexual- I have no idea why, but almost every girl i've ever been interested in seriously, with the exception of my last girlfriend, was bisexual, or at least heavily curious. Bi girls just seem to have better outlooks on life and sexuality to me.

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Hmm, I had this bi-sexual girl that wasn't going to tell me that she liked me, but her friend has a big mouth, which her friend also likes me (but she's straight)

However, just a little story about this...The bi-sexual girl was attractive but my family is like THERE'S NO FUTURE IN THAT! Let's remember that I'm from West Virginia too, the home of gay-bashers.  

I liked her and I wasn't going to let that stand in my way, but after hanging out with her some I realized that her age of 16, soon to be 17 was still somewhat "offguard"  It just seemed as if she had more priorities, and still wanted to have fun and not care about a serious committing relationship.  Maybe in a year or two she'll get more serious.  

Turn-Ons:

1. Piercings - I think piercings are really hot on most girls that I find attractive.  I think the more piercings, they better things get.  

2. Medium Breasts - I think this size is a turn on to me, ranging about C cups.  Anything under or over is ok, I wouldn't be that shallow to not be interested in someone because of their breast size.

3. Toned & Healthy - I like an average sized toned girl that has meat on her bones and don't show her bones when she walks.

4. Straight foward/down to earth - I like someone who is going to be straight forward with what they expect.  Also, I like someone that is just there to be themselves and no one else.  If you are going to call me at a certain time, do it unless you have an emergency.  If you are going to meet me somewhere, do it with no games.  I like that kind of girl.

5. Self appearence - I liked a girl that's going to style herself with the latest trends, some of you might call them "girly girls."  I think they look very good in their name brand clothing and the nails, nice shoes, hair to kill sort of type.

6. Shorter hair - I seem to fall for girls that have about shoulder length hair, or girls that have short hair.  I really don't know what it is, but it seems that the girls that have short hair always keep it in the best condition and styled. (Not saying other hairstyles don't) - Oh, and I'm not talking about extreme short butchered hair.

7. Self dependent - I like a girl that's not going to be totally dependent on me for her living conditions.  This might sound shallow to you, but I wouldn't completely single someone out that wasn't of this match.  I'm talking about a girl that can help herself without having my opinion, can drive herself, doesn't totally rely on me to bring her lifes needs, and can go out and do things on her own without needing me right beside her the whole time.

8. Hooped Earrings - Enough said, the girls I find attractive and pay the most attention to always seem to have hooped earrings on, whether they be large or small it somewhat completes them to my taste.

9. Layed-out background - I like a girl that's gonna have a life plan and a strong background to hold her to it.  Not too pushy, but not too leniant parents, completes high school and wants more out of her education, just similiar things like that.  

10. Sensitive type - I like the type that cares about people, and their things.  Treats other peoples things with respect, isn't cold-hearted, has a goal to succeed, isn't too emotional but not under emotional, things that fit into this branch.

Turn-Offs:

1. Insensitive Bitch - Can go for days or weeks without talking to you or could care less what you're doing, turns backwards on the things you like or just totally doesn't care for an all general perspective.

2. Liars - What is the point in lying? Sooner or later I will find out about it.  Don't lie about your age, name, or what you own that seems to be "impressive", because it's flat out stupid.

3. Not out of the bubble - I don't want somebody that's going to be centered upon things, can get out and do things and not afraid to do different things, is not tied down to something major.

4. Shaving - It's a must! I'm not talking about they must keep themselves groomed around the clock, but then again I don't want to stumble upon hairy legs or see hairy underarms, it's just gross!

5. Really thin girls - I just think it's better to have a healthy looking girl like I listed in turn-ons.

6. Arrogance - I definitely don't want a girl that all she cares about is herself, is bitchy all the time, thinks they're better than everyone else, just flat out doesn't care, or the "whatever" type that just gives up easy.  I think you get what I mean.

7. Tattoos - I can't stand tattoos.  I think a small one would be ok maybe something like on top of the breast, on the ankle or something like that.  But if they have multiple tattoos, or huge singular tattoos, it's a turn-off.

8. No Manners - I don't like a girl without some kind of sense of manners.  Someone that when we go out or be around people belches constantly, passes loud gas, is down right rude or offensive in their comments and just really doesn't care, etc.  This could also pass as someone who only cares about your house, car, job, or what kind of income you have.

9. Redneck/Similiar - Sorry, but I don't like redneck girls, they just don't fit my type.  I'm not a redneck at all and they usually just wear clothes and style themselves totally the opposite of what I like.  Not saying there is anything wrong with it...I have redneck female friends, just wouldn't work.

10. Extreme Height - Not saying I would never date a girl taller than me or equivalent.  I just prefer the girl to not be my height or within 1-2 inches of my height.  (I'm 6'0) Usually I think under 5'7" works the best.  

(Edited by XxCrazyDawg69xX at 4:20 am on July 16, 2004)

10. Humiliation... (I once said to my dad something about someone finding humiliation and pain a turnon... and he said "no thats everyone" lol)... its odd how humiliating this is... which is oddly... arousing ROFL!
9. Being experimental, but willing to be slow about it. Because I love to try new things, but I need time to build up the right state of mind. I like the willingness and ability to push me when someone knows I want something but I am afraid though. Because sometimes I NEED people to be firm and make me do what I want (but only when they know its what I want).
8. A semi-amorality regarding ceirtain things
7. A childish practical joker type sense of humor
6. A posh accent
5.Beauty (pointy perky breasts are a plus for girls and a sort of nearly anorexic look is a plus for boys I like people to be pale and I like them to be able to dance with their whole body, not just their hands and legs)
4. Odd coloured hair, especially bright orange, bright pink, or bright red.
3. Self Assuredness.
2. Thinking odd thoughts, doing odd things, saying odd things, just something that makes me think "wow... s/he is so... out there... cute"
1. Wit.

Turnoffs

10. Assuming I don't like fun things because I am a girl!
9. Obsession with working out
8. Expecting too much or too little from me.
7. Snobbishness.
6. Unwillingness to face fear (mine or their own) and push through it.
5. Utter lack of a sense of aesthetic.
4. Obesity (I don't mean like just a bit pogy thats not too bad but huge people... no...)
3. Being... weak, I mean everyone is to an extent, but you know... just so much so its pathetic...
2. Stupididty.
1. Being boring.

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1) Bad sense of humor- nothing is worse then when your with a guy who takes himself too seriously. I can't help but feel like he is judging me every second i am with those kind of people. It makes me self-conscious and uncomfortable.

2) Liars- Who likes a liar?! I like honest guys who I can trust.

3) Bragging- So you can do 100 push ups, you work out 6 days a week, and you have played football since you were 4...WHO CARES?! Thats not the sort of stuff i need to know during our first conversation.

4) Cockiness- This goes along with #3. I hate it when a guy has the attitude that he can go out and capture the heart of any and every girl he comes across.

5) Girly guys- If you spend more time in front of the mirror in the morning then I do, then most likely your not my type.

6) Catcallers- There is a huge different from Mr. Suave who can strike up intriguing conversation and the type of guys who harrass you by yelling outloud in public to you or beg you for your number.

7) Skinny guys- I just don't like really skinny guys. I guess you could say I am picky, but tall, lanky, skinny guys guys are not my type.

8) Work-a-holics- Believe it or not, i have been with a guy, and although he was only 18, I saw some early signs of being a work-a-holic. And i couldn't help but wonder exactly where his priorities really were.

9) Gossip/ Judgemental- I can NOT stand it when I am out with a guy and he has mean remarks to make about almost everyone in the room ("Ew, that lady is too fat, she shouldn't be eating that!" "That guy's beard is nasty" etc.) I hear enough of that with my girlfriends...I don't want to hear it from my boyfriend. Not to mention, it makes me feel insecure because I begin to wonder if he is judging me about stupid stuff.

10) Fake- Can't really explain it, but its easy to tell when someone is putting on an act. The whole romance with flowers can be nice, but if its and act and your not sincere then just don't do it.

Turn ons:

1) Confidence- This is a must! I find it extremely attractive when a guy is sure enough in himself to not be shy, innitiate conversation, and is also confident enough to not feel like he has to brag or be cocky.

2) Toned bods- Oh yeah....this is very very nice. Not that it is a must, it is most definitely a turn on

3) Know the right time- I love it when a guy knows exactly when the mood is right to make a move.

4) Compliments- I'll admit it, I love hearing about how great he thinks I am. So, if you got something nice to say, say it!

5) Wants me- Its great to know that he wants you. It makes me feel desirable.

6) Independent- If your mom stills does your laundry, learn how to do it yourself.

7) Has it going on upstairs- A dumb guy is a complete turn off. I need to be able to have real conversations. Also, he needs to have his own opinions and feel strongly about some issues. I don't want him to agree with me on everything.

8) Good "skills"- This makes a guy seem more mature and experienced, not to mention it feels good.

9) Put in an effort- I hate it when a guy is lazy and won't put forth an effort for anything (his relationships, his work, his school, etc.)

10) Can have a good time- When a guy doesn't take himself too seriously and can sit down with me and be completely relaxed and slighty goofy, then I don't feel like i have to retain myself and act a certian way. I can lighten up and be myself.

1) Bad sense of humor- nothing is worse then when your with a guy who takes himself too seriously. I can't help but feel like he is judging me every second i am with those kind of people. It makes me self-conscious and uncomfortable.

2) Liars- Who likes a liar?! I like honest guys who I can trust.

3) Bragging- So you can do 100 push ups, you work out 6 days a week, and you have played football since you were 4...WHO CARES?! Thats not the sort of stuff i need to know during our first conversation.

4) Cockiness- This goes along with #3. I hate it when a guy has the attitude that he can go out and capture the heart of any and every girl he comes across.

5) Girly guys- If you spend more time in front of the mirror in the morning then I do, then most likely your not my type.

6) Catcallers- There is a huge different from Mr. Suave who can strike up intriguing conversation and the type of guys who harrass you by yelling outloud in public to you or beg you for your number.

7) Skinny guys- I just don't like really skinny guys. I guess you could say I am picky, but tall, lanky, skinny guys guys are not my type.

8) Work-a-holics- Believe it or not, i have been with a guy, and although he was only 18, I saw some early signs of being a work-a-holic. And i couldn't help but wonder exactly where his priorities really were.

9) Gossip/ Judgemental- I can NOT stand it when I am out with a guy and he has mean remarks to make about almost everyone in the room ("Ew, that lady is too fat, she shouldn't be eating that!" "That guy's beard is nasty" etc.) I hear enough of that with my girlfriends...I don't want to hear it from my boyfriend. Not to mention, it makes me feel insecure because I begin to wonder if he is judging me about stupid stuff.

10) Fake- Can't really explain it, but its easy to tell when someone is putting on an act. The whole romance with flowers can be nice, but if its and act and your not sincere then just don't do it.

Turn ons:

1) Confidence- This is a must! I find it extremely attractive when a guy is sure enough in himself to not be shy, innitiate conversation, and is also confident enough to not feel like he has to brag or be cocky.

2) Toned bods- Oh yeah....this is very very nice. Not that it is a must, it is most definitely a turn on

3) Know the right time- I love it when a guy knows exactly when the mood is right to make a move.

4) Compliments- I'll admit it, I love hearing about how great he thinks I am. So, if you got something nice to say, say it!

5) Wants me- Its great to know that he wants you. It makes me feel desirable.

6) Independent- If your mom stills does your laundry, learn how to do it yourself.

7) Has it going on upstairs- A dumb guy is a complete turn off. I need to be able to have real conversations. Also, he needs to have his own opinions and feel strongly about some issues. I don't want him to agree with me on everything.

8) Good "skills"- This makes a guy seem more mature and experienced, not to mention it feels good.

9) Put in an effort- I hate it when a guy is lazy and won't put forth an effort for anything (his relationships, his work, his school, etc.)

10) Can have a good time- When a guy doesn't take himself too seriously and can sit down with me and be completely relaxed and slighty goofy, then I don't feel like i have to retain myself and act a certian way. I can lighten up and be myself.

And now for my 2 cents:

Turn offs:

1) Lying - God I hate lying. Lying to me about serious subjects would make me dump the girl, but lying to her mom just so we can go out is also rather disturbing. If I don't do it, she shouldn't either. Moms find all out later anyway.

2) Fake girls - Putting up a performance just so I could find out it was all to impress, and nothing else? Why bother? Show me who you are instead. Works better in the long run.

3) Looks-Obsessive - If she works hard to make herself beautiful, I do nothing but welcome it (With exaggerated enthusiasm), but standing 5 hours in front of the mirror, twice the time in front of the closet, and thrice the time picking a perfume? Wear a mask and get over with it. Also asking if your makeup is fine every five minutes is not the point of our date. At least in my opinion.

4) Strong Race/Gender/Looks/N such related opinions: "Don't judge, and thou shan't be judged". It's cool knowing how to dress right, how to put make up right, how to speak right, but if people areound you are less lucky than you are, it doesn't mean you have to bash them for it! Racism, by the way, is a total turnoff.

5) Product of Society: Need I say more?

6) Two-Faced: When you need something, you're a sweetheart, but when I need something, you're a bitch? OMGEW

7) Arrogance: If you have self-confidence, that's fine, but trying to show everyone you're better than them? What for? It actually conveys the opposite message on the long run.

8) Untrustworthy: Alright, so we had a fight, but throwing everything I trusted you with in my face? Alright, ok, you win. I'm leaving though.
Telling my secrets to her friends, just because they are their best friends for life, is uncool as well.
People are NOT to be trusted. Period. So if I actually did risk it with you, at least give it more respect than just another conversation topic with your other friends, who tell it to their other friends and so on.

9) Complain: You can go ahead and tell me your troubles, I know it makes you feel better, and I'll listen with pleasure. But not all the goddamn day every freaking second of every freaking minute!
*cough* Too much of everything is baad.

10) Boring: It's a mental problem of mine. I get bored really quickly. So when speaking about a girl, the subject is just about as troubling as it gets. I'm sorry, but if something is boring me, I make a change, even if the change is you.

Turn-Ons

1) Intelligence & Wit: I agree with every guy and girl who stated this before. I think my girl should at least be able to have a decent and interesting conversation with me. Specialising in a topic I lack knowledge at is even better.

2) Strong opinions: Girls who have their own opinions about various subjects, and who are also ready to protect them by arguing with me without turning it into a fight for one reason or the other, and without letting it degrade into "Am not" "Are too" level are very turning-on for me (I do not refer to the ability to stop me when I make the arguement degrade. That's no one's responsibility but myself).

3) Trusting: I like a girl who can rely on me for help, who isn't afraid to lean on me when she's tired (With more than one meaning). I believe the most pleasure I've gotten so far is from being useful for a girl. Exploit it! I'll be nothing but grateful.
(Er, painting your room and washing your house is pushing it). A request for help on the emotional level, by the way, is the best it gets.

4) Open Mindness: I like girls who are able to think on more than a single dimention, in more than a single frame of rules, and are ready to experiment on all of them (Not necesarrily with physical reference). Self-limitation without reason other than fear of innovation is annoying.
Building a house is fine, but locking yourself inside because of fear of hostile weather? And where were you exactly while building it?
Being able to adapt to various situations is also cool.

5) Aggressive: Yeah, I find aggressive girls hot (Rather than passive). And I don't mean the rude aggressive type. But you don't have to be a small little mouse either. Also, why always wait for me to make the first move? You'll wait longer, and then you'll be unsatisfied anyway. I kinda miss the point.

6) Looks: Well, I find everything attractive except the two extremes in anything that can be measured (Long hair excluded). The best, IMHO, is the middle. But I'm really open minded about this subject.

7) Entertainer: I love a good sense of humor in every situation.

8) I don't really know how to title this, but I love a girl who takes care of me. Be pushy, I don't care! :P Well, err, too pushy is rather annoying after a while, but you folks get my point.

9) Equal: I think a girl should consider herself equal. I won't make you fight for your right of independance, but don't act as if I'm not there at all, either. Otherwise this train will lean to one side and will eventually go off-track.

10) Hmmm, what to put here. Oh, yeah. A girl who is interested in me is a major turn off :P

DISCLAIMER:
1) Too much of any of the turn ons or too little of the turn offs VOIDs either.
2) Some of the sections in both categories refer to a 'girlfriend', ie a girl with whom I'm in a relationship.
3) I do not limit myself to the sections I stated above. These are my top 10.
4) The sections in both category are not in any order at all, other than order of remembering.
5) Before you ask this, my GF fits in almost, if not all, the sections above. This, of course, raises the question whether the list is built based on her. I believe (And hope) the answer is negatory.

(Edited by Tiger at 7:50 pm on July 16, 2004)

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Turn Off's:
1- Too many muscles
2- Is full of ones self
3- Uses the word "boobies" (like what the crap is that?!?)
4- Lying
5- Overly hairy
6- uncircumsized guys (that just creeps me out)
7- Constant nagging
8- rotting/ horrifically bad teeth (that speaks for itself)
9- Athletic
10- HAIRY BALLS *gags*

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