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Your Top 10 Turn-Ons/Turn-offs
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vballswim07


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Good topic!
I would say, my turn ons are:
1. Truly caring about my feelings.
Like, being able to tell if I am not comfortable
with a situation and doing something about it.
2. A nice smile.
What can I say? You can tell a lot about a person
from their smile, and its really important to me.
3. Athletism.
Id like my guy to be pretty toned... at the very
least more muscular then me, which may actually
be a lot to ask ;)
4. Height.
Sorry, but I cant take a guy who is shorter then me
seriously.
5. A certain sense of shyness.
I hate guys who are cocky, and I would rather err
on the side of them being too shy then cocky. Plus
shy guys are usually cuter, more sensitive, and are
not "players".
6. Ability to hold a conversation.
This implies they they are not a total ROCK, and it
also shows how compatible you are.
7. Goals in life.
If the guy doesnt have anything they are aiming
for, this kind of implies they will be a nobody, and
that is not the kind of guy I generally like to date.
8. Similar hobbies/interests.
Id like to be able to actually hang out with him at
activities we both do.
9. Religious beliefs.
If the guy is not god-fearing, theyres really no limit
on what they can do, so I prefer someone who is at
least semi religious.
10. Being a gentleman.
This is super important. I like guys to open doors
for me, pay for dates (not always of course), and
pretty much show how important they think I am by
treating me like a princess.

My turn offs:
1. Cockiness.
ITS THE WORST. Shut up, and stop being so full of
yourself, I am a lot better then you will ever be.
2. Pushing me too far.
I have my limits, and I am not going to go past
them no matter what. If you go out with a girl just
for sex, choose someone else cause I am saving
myself for marriage.
3. Making fun of things I consider important.
I understand a little bit of teasing, everyone does
that.  But if it occurs way too often, or just goes too
far... I cant really deal with that.
4. Bad breath.
Or smoking. It just grosses me out. Especcially if
youre planning on kissing... I mean you can use a
toothbrush, mouthwash, gum, anything. Its really
just laziness if you dont do anything about it.
5. Having no life.
Not only does this show that the guy doesnt have a
good future ahead of him, but it also makes
guys more "clingy".
6. Being less talented then me at everything.
I understand if I can beat him at certain things, but
if I literally can beat him at ANYTHING he tries to
do... well it kind of means I deserve better.
7. A robotic personality.
If the guy never stops being serious, and has NO
sense of humor, I couldnt deal with that.
8. Not good to my family.
How good a guy treats your family really shows how
invested he is in YOU, and if he isnt nice, he doesnt
really like you that much.
9. Expects you to give up things for him.
If he expects me to stop doing the activities I enjoy,
or stop hanging out with my friends, hes DONE. A
boyfriend will never be my ENTIRE life.
10. Not paying attention to me.
On a date, Id expect the guy to be focused on you,
and you alone. No wandering eyes, no picking up
calls--it all can wait. Do it out of respect, even if the
date is not nessicarily going well.

Post edited at 1:30 pm on Jan. 9, 2008 by vballswim07

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KittynBoots


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Nice list. Your right.

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guitarherolover12


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talk about picky?

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EmoChic1990


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6 turn ons:
Punk.Emo/Skater style
Rock Music
Similar interests
Hilarious
Laid back
Really sweet

4 turn offs:
Concieted
Preppy
Uptight/detailed
Different views on what is considered rude or mannerly


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m26555


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Quote: from Natasha x at 9:58 pm on Dec. 18, 2007

My turnons are:
Amazing arms, tall, stupid but smart too, cute, jealous, protective, spiked hair, has a bad side to him, will argue with me, gets nervous around me

My turnoffs are:
Getting to the sexual stuff too fast, talking about sex WAY too much, boring, talks about himself alot, shorter than me



So you'd like a guy who gets nervous around you? That's a new one..

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m26555


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Some of you people are way too picky..I mean, some of you won't date someone just because they like different music than you. If that's what you look for in your partner then you have a bit of a problem..

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beckettalltheway


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Quote: from Anonymous at 6:19 pm on July 4, 2004

good luck finding a girl that meets all ur requirements?


As the opposite sex i agree with you on a few topics and i can assure you we have a similar list but why the hell are you so worried about a breast size when there are more important things to worry about a girl?


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Helpfm


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That sounds like me :L lol x

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LaLa025


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hmmmm

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Kitty Kiska


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Arent nearly all girls bitchy...i know tat girls love to tease they cant resist it and in anyways half the turn off on the first ever comment are too....well hello get real

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Unknown666


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haha lol. i have never met any girls that are bisexual!

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Good luck finding that...

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uve gud taste

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Petchy


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Turn-ons:
1.Confidence, It is always hot seeing a girl with alot of confidence i think it tells alot about them.

2.Strong opinions, I hate girls who are easy and just let guys do things to them, or people who have no idea whats going on in the world, and just dont care. I'ts attractive to see some one with some morals.

3. Good sense of humour, who wants a girl who can't take a joke?

4.Adventurous, I love trying things new, and i want to be excited.

5.Bum, As an ass man i love a girl with a booty, not huge, but something round and nice!


6.Pubic hair, not like tottally natural, but trimmed is good, I don't want them too look like a 8 year old.

7.Teases, not too much of course, That would be pressing, but i like a girl to have a sense of control.

8.Laid back, I like girls who arn't bothered with how they look constantly, messy rooms, wearing underwear more than once, not putting the toilet seat down. Life is meant to be relaxed.

9.Brown hair, Bruinetts are sexy, the end.

10. Pretty & Beautiful eyes, Should be nearer the top really, I dont get how people find these extramly ugly girls attractive just because of their bodys. Personally I like naturally beautiful girls, with nice eyes. mmmm.

Turn offs:
1.Bitchyness, Who does like it?

2.Forceful, If I want to take my time with something, I should be alowed to.

3.Shallowness, Shallow people anoy me so much, they can't see the beauty in anyone, i think its kinda self fish actualy.

4.Attention Seekers, Loud, pathetic people with no lives of there own.

5.People with no depth, people without any opinions suck, If they take no intrest in anything, why should i take intrest in them.

6."Too" shy people, shy people are great, but its the ones that dont talk to me, that i'm not keen on.

7.No conversational skills, They have to be able to hold a conversation, have too.

8.Doesn't listen to me, although i may not talk alot, I like to be listened to once in a while.

9.Easy, I hate girls to have no morals, and just let guys do things to her without a second though, I like a challange.

10. Demanding, I dont want to be ordered around ALL the time, but i don't mind it mostly.

I just want to say, that turn ons list was moddeled on my girlfriend, I swear there is not one thing that I would ever change about her.


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samegame


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I understand where this guy is coming from...I don't think he exepcts to find all of those qualities in a girl because then he's just living in his own world...but he's just stating what he finds is a turn-on or a turn-off, there's nothing wrong with that right?
And also I don't like how you said that "I don't mind sluts on occasion"--that sounds really superficial. And I really don't like that term, either. I'll admit that I use it sometimes but I'm trying not to.
And on that note, I think it's total bullshit that girls who sleep around are called "sluts" but guys who do the same are considered as some sort of "hero". Friggin double standards of society...

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