OK so I am sure this has been posted before but i'm to lazy to search. I also think I probabaly know the answer but a 2nd opinion would be nice.
My boyfriend and I have been having sex for over a year. he's always on top. But he wants me on top so the odd time I try it hurts like a bitch. I can't even explain it. and this in turn it is actually putting strain on our relationship he's always complaining about it but I wont go on top cuz it hurts to much and its just not a good situation.
So I was talking to my friend about it ( weird eh) and he said that maybe I didn't "pop my cherry" (hymen. or however its spelt) I don't think that is possible because we have been having sex for so long and what not
Also is there anyway for me to be on top without it hurting. I hate the idea of me being on top but its only fair right?? and if it wouldn't hurt I wouldn't mind so much. even if I don't feel anything at all it would keep him happy.
help?
7:15 pm on June 30, 2008
assman27
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ill show u.
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HuffleHaire
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Your boyfriend is a jerk.
Maybe you need to try a different position.
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aGIRLunknown
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yeah go slow and don't go all the way in. (i like the pain of being on top but I rather be on the bottom)
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Lulu Nobody
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Are you sitting up straight or do you lean over him a little? I find that if I sit up straight (back straight) with my boyfriend with myself on top that it hurts, but if I lean forward it goes less deep and is more comfortable. Try leaning forward, almost as if laying on top of him once he penetrates, you may find it more comfortable.
If it's painful even then, then I'm not sure what to tell you. On top probably just doesn't work for you and he'll have to understand that.
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PinkLotus
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You could try lubrication and such. I am not sure if it would help though.
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crazy4you
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Try doggy style instead, that's a lot less painful and awkward and it feels great.
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u could b on top but backwords. like ur ass facin his face. i dunno, never tryed it but ive heard bout it
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Quote: from crazy4you at 10:23 pm on June 30, 2008
Try doggy style instead, that's a lot less painful and awkward and it feels great.
we do... its one of my favorites
7:23 pm on June 30, 2008
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Quote: from Anonymous at 7:23 pm on June 30, 2008
Quote: from crazy4you at 10:23 pm on June 30, 2008
Try doggy style instead, that's a lot less painful and awkward and it feels great.
we do... its one of my favorites
oh okay, that's my favorite too. i don't know then. just tell him you're not comfortable with it. surprise him with something new! :)
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i dont have much to tell you because i have never had a boyfriend and im still a virgin
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Try doggy style instead, that's a lot less painful and awkward and it feels great. 
