When i moved in last summer, it was just my boyfriend and his brother.

They let this friend guy move in a month after me, but he was only supposed to live here a few days. Clearly that didn't go as planned.

They've been trying to get him to leave since then, and he just somehow weasels his way back.
He moved out for a week at the beginning of June, but his stuff was still in that room.
Now they're letting him stay here til September.
This is like the 6th or 7th time they've gone back on kicking him out.

i can't stand this guy. He's messy, rude, perverted, among many other things.

My boyfriend's thinking is if i don't live with him, we're not together, we're over, it's the end of the world, etc etc.

How do i explain that it's not?

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