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She keeps leading me on!
A girl i know..
Replies: 1Last Post June 30 10:14am by emma19911
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I like her, and she knows i like her, after my break up with my ex girlfriend i started to notice this girl, but i didnt act on my thoughts because i thought she was just a re-bound and no girl deservs that. So i waited 2 months, and i liked her even more.. During the 2 months while i was 'playing it cool' we flirted quite a lot. She would laugh at all the things i said and she'd touch my arm and while i was writing in my book, she'd be writing in hers, but our arms touched, she would also tease me, so i'd tease her back.. These were all signs that said "hey, she mabye likes me?" so i thought i was in with a chance. I asked her out and she said that she didn't want to risk loosing our friendship. I thought "yeah, thats fair enough." I asked her to the movies a few times and she said yes, but something always came up. Then the last time i asked her i said "hey, i was wondering if you'd like to see a movie with me, and hopefuly this time nothing will come up" and she said "yeah, that sounds ok.. But i dont want yuo to get the wrong idea, i think yuo're great and i like spending time with you, but yaeh i dont really like you in that way, sorry if it sounded mean i just thought yuo should know." I was only asking her as a friend. Anyway, something came up again for her. (its not just excuses btw) Since that last time, she has still flirted with me more and is still doing all the things i mentioned ealier. So i backed off for a little bit, and she started txting me on Saturday nights, asking how my day was.. So... i don't know.. I feel ilke she's leading me on.. Or maybe she likes me..? My drinking buddies rekon she likes me.. im really confused, frustrated and sad at her.. Any help would be really appreciated!
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12:00 am on June 30, 2008
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One thing I want to start of by saying is it's sweet that you thought about her and you didn't act on it due to the fear of her being a re-bound. It shows that you respect her as a person.

The fact that this girl has been flirting with you makes me think she likes you however is sending mixed signals. She shows signs of liking you, however she has clearly said that she doesn't see you in that way. To be honest she doesn't seem like a girl you should get your hopes on because she is play with you.

None deserves to have their feeling played with, which is what she is doing because she is clearly flirting with you however doesn't show anything when you actually try to get somewhere with her. I understand she doesn't want to ruin the friendship however her flirting doesn't make it any easier so maybe talk to her about it. However she might be one of those girls that flirt with all her guy friends.

You need to find a girl who has an interest in you like you do her because you want someone with likewise feelings otherwise you will just continue to be disappointed. Go out with your drinking buddies and have a look at other potential females that you could get with because who knows the right girl might be around the next corner. You just have to move on until you find the right one.

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