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Girlfriend's Drinking
Replies: 7Last Post Aug. 28 6:11am by ErnestoTheTrippyOne
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Im worried because my girlfriend likes to drink alot.
She's underage (19) but her brother and sister arent and they buy it and share it with her.
She claims she can have 8 (beers i guess) w/o feeling any effect, but then she'll tell me later "we were so drunk, blah blah"  
and she's always saying she's craving alcohol, and saying "im going to be addicted soon" and i cant say anything, because when ive said "too much isnt good for you" she kind of brushes me off or says "i can handle it" which is a total lie because she's so small (5'1").
idk what to do.
i kno when she turns 21 she'll start buying it and getting drunk all the time.
ugh.
and im not trying to be controlling, im concerned and worried about her.

*throat* <--expl

Post edited at 5:31 am on Aug. 28, 2008 by Brawler

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LEONIDOS

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IS SHE DRINKING EVERYDAY IF SO SHE WILL HAVE A PROBLEM

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Maybe you could talk to her about it, and put it in terms of just wanting her to be ok and not have anything bad to her, rather than it coming off that you're trying to change or control her.  

I'd be worried about something like this too :[


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conoris16


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once she gets all that drinking out of her system she'll prb settle down, seriously i know heaps of people who drink heaps when they are underage but then once they are able to drink legally it loses its novelty quickly

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PM me any time. I have exactly the same problem with my mum, but she's a lot older obviously.

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Tell her that it's bothering you and if she loves you she'll stop. Or at least try to cut down a bit. It's bothering you a lot, and you sound pretty scared for her. If she loves you she'll probably slow down for you. Just don't say "if you love me you'll stop", cause then you're just manipulating her.

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