well here is some advice for you from a psychology major...don't be so harsh on your friend...he "complains" to you because he trust you..and he feels like you will always be there for him..if you complain about hin complaining then he will draw away from you and that isn't safe.... and for him...start a journal..i know it sounds gay but trust me...every day you feel that your life is going down hill write about what happened and why you hated it..this will get it out or ur head and it will be safe on paper...then step two..
stop complaining about it...lol...that will not make it better, only worst..you have to see where the problems in your life are and work them out..if you can't do it by your self then email me and i will help you...ibleed4u123@aol.com
if he doesn't see this then give him my email..tell him to write HELP in the subject line and i will get it back to him right away...talking to a total stranger seems to work for ppl becuz they know they will never see that person again...so i hope that he contacts me and i will help him out...
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I have this friend who is always complaining about his life, he is always bitching, always acting depressed because he " hates how shit is going" in his life. He always complains to me and then treats me like shit when I give him honest advice like "Don't just sit there and complain 24/7 get off your ass and change the way things are going." But he would rather bitch about his life and say he wishes he was dead instead of do stuff to change it. It has started to wear on me worrying about him. As much as I try to help him it just seems as if he would rather be a martyr and be like "oh poor me" than do anything to make his life better. 
