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Getting over "I don't want to ruin our friendship" |
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 Replies: 12 — Last Post July 19 12:07am by Cream Corn
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mo money17
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It's usually(for me) a nice way of saying no thanks.
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agentxprovocateur
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yes they're not interested
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freakyredhead
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i hate it when guys use that excuse i mean come on you couldn't come up with something better
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blufindr
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Not necessarily. Some girls might genuinely want to not ruin your relationship.
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mslibero
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its defiantly true for me.
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2kewl4u2know
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For me it was just a nice way to decline, but now I've learned to just be straight forward...It's a lot less drama in the end.
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youcef
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Quote: from Steel Ebola at 2:18 am on July 19, 2008
 So I hate when girls say/feel that. How do you get a girl to take the chance. Also even more I want to know, how do you transition from friends to boyfriend/girlfriend. Also, is it true that when girls say I don't want to ruin our friendship, is it always just a way of saying I'm not interested? 
Most of the time it's bullshit. Other times, they really may not want to mess up the friendship. But from my experience, it's been the former. You can't really get her to make the transition....but if you want some kind of hope, act like you don't like her. Same thing I'm doing to this girl I know...I pursued her so hard that she ended up not liking me. Now since I chilled out, I'm feeling the sparks from her again.
take it easy, have a few girls on the side to talk to so you wont be stressing over just one, and try not to be too too aggressive that you appear needy.
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11:29 pm on July 18, 2008 | Joined Feb. 2006 | 486 Days Active
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dpalnuiteol
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i hate that too, what bitches
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( Steel Ebola )
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Quote: from youcef at 1:29 am on July 19, 2008
Quote: from Steel Ebola at 2:18 am on July 19, 2008
So I hate when girls say/feel that. How do you get a girl to take the chance. Also even more I want to know, how do you transition from friends to boyfriend/girlfriend. Also, is it true that when girls say I don't want to ruin our friendship, is it always just a way of saying I'm not interested?
Most of the time it's bullshit. Other times, they really may not want to mess up the friendship. But from my experience, it's been the former. You can't really get her to make the transition....but if you want some kind of hope, act like you don't like her. Same thing I'm doing to this girl I know...I pursued her so hard that she ended up not liking me. Now since I chilled out, I'm feeling the sparks from her again.
take it easy, have a few girls on the side to talk to so you wont be stressing over just one, and try not to be too too aggressive that you appear needy.
Cool thanks for the solid advice.
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