just to answer your question, I think it's best not to come off so strong early in the friendship..the girl is still trying to feel you out. Play things cool..talk to her like she's your guy friend..just be comfortable, and don't make her your main attraction. The doors should open by themselves (with the universe willing)

I say, if you want to be with a girl, let that intention be known from the start, don't let her believe you're there to be only friends, let her know you like her.

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hmm. well i don't think it's NECESSARY, but that's how it worked for me. for us it just went like this 1) hang out in class...2) hang out in groups....3) hang out in 3's...4)just you two hang out....5) go to the woods in attempt to make a fire and roast hot dogs, but get car stuck in mud then make out for an hr instead....6)....you get the idea lol

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Lol

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My boyfriend and I were never really "friends" when we started going out. From the get-go we knew we liked each other so we talked and flirted everyday. There was no mistaking we liked each other, and neither of us thought of going through that "friend stage" first.

I say, if you want to be with a girl, let that intention be known from the start, don't let her believe you're there to be only friends, let her know you like her.

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good point. But in letting it be known, don't constantly remind her of it, or go overboard with your confessions. It will kill off any attraction: TRUST ME.

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Quote: from 2kewl4u2know at 2:34 am on July 19, 2008

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My boyfriend and I were never really "friends" when we started going out.  From the get-go we knew we liked each other so we talked and flirted everyday.  There was no mistaking we liked each other, and neither of us thought of going through that "friend stage" first.  

 I say, if you want to be with a girl, let that intention be known from the start, don't let her believe you're there to be only friends, let her know you like her.

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good point. But in letting it be known, don't constantly remind her of it, or go overboard with your confessions. It will kill off any attraction: TRUST ME.

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What y'all said seems right, but how do you confess your intention without over doing it?

And about co-own, what's that and how does it work?

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"Now I am become Death, the destroyer of worlds." - J. Robert Oppenheimer