1. we are not compatible when it comes to sense of humor. Like most of the time he doesnt get what's so funny about my jokes, or I have to pretend that what he said is funny alot.
2. he bores me. whenever we talk on the phone, he mostly just talks about what HE thinks, what HE sees, what HE is. If I say anything about myself he just says, "yeah, uh huh" and continues talking about himself.

and this sucks ALOT because I want a boyfriend who is my friend too. I want a boyfriend who I can be myself with, without worrying about how he'll judge me.

but at the same time, we have our good moments when we actually enjoy each other's company. And sometimes I feel like I love him.

But other days I feel like I dont

IM SO CONFUSED!!!!! LoL
Should I break up with him???
Or should I keep him???
I dont wanna hurt him, and if we should break up I still want to be friends with him but I dont know, I still really like him too! HELP!    

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You can solve those two problems you listed. You're taking them too far whole they are actually small things.

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You.. let me believe...
and then I failed again.

Post edited at 11:36 pm on July 18, 2008 by Aero360

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Never take life seriously.  Nobody gets out alive anyway.

but idk it really sucks wwhen u feel non compatiable

maybe u should wait a while see what happens
and if it doesnt get nebetter..it wont...and it will get worse
so end it before it hurts u more

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"I believe once you trulyyy love someone; you never stop."

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My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost two months, and I've been confused about how I feel about this relationship ALOT. One day, I feel sooo happy that he's my boyfriend, but then the next I feel like we should break up! Plus whenever I think about our relationship, I've come to realize some horrible truths:

1. we are not compatible when it comes to sense of humor. Like most of the time he doesnt get what's so funny about my jokes, or I have to pretend that what he said is funny alot.
2. he bores me. whenever we talk on the phone, he mostly just talks about what HE thinks, what HE sees, what HE is. If I say anything about myself he just says, "yeah, uh huh" and continues talking about himself.

and this sucks ALOT because I want a boyfriend who is my friend too. I want a boyfriend who I can be myself with, without worrying about how he'll judge me.

but at the same time, we have our good moments when we actually enjoy each other's company. And sometimes I feel like I love him.

But other days I feel like I dont  
   

IM SO CONFUSED!!!!! LoL
Should I break up with him???
Or should I keep him???
I dont wanna hurt him, and if we should break up I still want to be friends with him but I dont know, I still really like him too! HELP!

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Okay, you remind me of my and my boyfriend when we started dating. EXACTLY THE SAME. I've come to love him for his faults, and he for mine.

Over time, you find yourself having more in common than usual when the relationship started out. I felt confused to - not sure if I wanted to still be with him, or whatever.

We've been dating two years, and we love each other.

Obviously - if you're posting this, you haven't give up hope. Cling to that - be faithful of your relationship, EVEN IF OTHERS AREN'T (because trust me, some won't be) and you'll be able to persevere. It's hard, but I've done it, and so can you.

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Each day is a new canvas to paint upon.
Make sure your picture is full of life and happiness,
and at the end of the day you don't look at it
and wish you had painted something different.

I'm not saying he's capable of changing, he might not be, but at least I think giving him a chance to think about it would be fair, and it might solve the problem

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Fine
Ignore me today, if you want to
But, tomorrow I may be the only friend you got
And I won't be there for you

You can't love someone in two months so eliminate this from your thought process.

When you have so many negatives in a relationship and you can't work them out then it's time to go.