Alright so I met this awesome girl last april about month before we were both done for the spring semester of college. I was a freshman and she was a sophomore, and we worked together at a clothing store, but went to different schools. I definitely had a crush on her, but I wasn't sure if she felt the same. Regardless, she came to party with me at my school, and we hung out after work and stuff. She even kinda invited herself to visit me one day at work. It was cool, but she was going to study abroad in the fall, and so I wasn't gonna get to see her for like 8 months. I talked to her before we were done with school and told her that I thought she was an awesome girl and that I had a little kindergarten crush on her, but kinda got the vibe that she saw us more as friends. I gave her the out if she wanted to take it. She said that no, it was just that she was going to Europe and didn't want to start anything. And I told her I def was not trying to start anything now, I just wanted to be honest before we parted ways. Anyways that was early May. I saw her as one of the best people I had met that whole year. Like we really clicked, and I was fine if she just wanted to be friends. We talked on aim twice in that early part of May when we were both home, and she did initiate one of the conversations. I sent her a pretty good sized, but purely small-talk, joking wall post on facebook in early June, and she didn't respond. I def tripped off of that a little and we haven't talked since those conversations on aim in May. I know she's in California (where I live) right now, even tho she's from the midwest, and we go to school on the East Coast. I gotta say, I'm pretty disappointed that she didn't like say that she was coming even tho she's going to LA and I live Norcal. Not that we would meet up, but I always ragged on Socal, and she didn't say anything. I don't want to lose her as a friend, but I also don't really want to be the one making all the effort to stay in touch. What should I do? Sorry for the length btw.
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