LiveWire Network Peer Answers Peer Support Teen Forums Tech Forums College Forums 622 users online 174563 members 1683 active today Advertise Here Sign In
TeenCollegeTechPhotos | Quizzes | LiveSecret | Video | Dictionary | News | FAQ
You have 1 new message.
Emergency Help
Until you sign up you can't do much. Yes, it's free.

Sign Up Now
Membername:
Password:
Already have an account?
Invite Friends
Active Members
Groups
Contests
Moderators
3 online / 76 MPM
Fresh Topics
  LiveWire / Teen Forums / Teen Sexuality / Viewing Topic

Cant get hard....
Replies: 12Last Post July 20 11:20am by Anonymous
Single page for this topic Email Print Favorite
( Anonymous )

Reply
My girlfriend and i have been together for about 6 months.  the other night we tried to have sex, but after i got the condom its like i couldn't get had no matter what i tried.

the next night we tried again, same problem.  


I want to know how to get past this, i get hard an yother time with her, its just that as soon as it turns into "sex" i loose the erection. its really bugging me.


11:05 am on July 20, 2008
fluffysocks


Advisor
Reply
nerves?

i've heard that can do things

Or pressure.


11:06 am on July 20, 2008 | Joined July 2008 | 5 Days Active
Join to learn more about fluffysocks England, United Kingdom | Straight Female | 397 Posts | 684 Points
Anonymous

Reply
maybe your gay?

11:07 am on July 20, 2008
outofnowhere


Dairy Product Addict
Reply
Masterbate a little and quickly put the condom on

11:07 am on July 20, 2008 | Joined May 2008 | 64 Days Active
Join to learn more about outofnowhere Texas, United States | Gay Male | 438 Posts | 1129 Points
UltimateSatisfaction


Mrs. CaliKevin

Sustainer
Reply
It could be the condom.. you're not used to the feeling, maybe. Try using a condom when you masturbate.

-------
there's still not a day that goes by without me thinking
of you, thinking of all your flaws and how they all
mangle together into perfection.

11:07 am on July 20, 2008 | Joined Oct. 2006 | 486 Days Active
Join to learn more about UltimateSatisfaction Antarctica | 6949 Posts | 25628 Points
devinx33


Professional
Reply
nervousness.

try not to think about it as much

-------
Im NOT Fake.  


11:08 am on July 20, 2008 | Joined Mar. 2007 | 137 Days Active
Join to learn more about devinx33 New Jersey, United States | Straight Female | 928 Posts | 2404 Points
HateParents


Executive
Reply
Quote: from devinx33 at 11:08 am on July 20, 2008

nervousness.

try not to think about it as much



That^

I had same problem  

-------
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'll pay,
When tomorrow, tomorrow comes today.


11:09 am on July 20, 2008 | Joined Feb. 2008 | 88 Days Active
Join to learn more about HateParents Washington, United States | Straight Male | 2177 Posts | 3248 Points
alexachung is hot


Advisor
Reply
maybe your gay or you algeric to condorms or even have a fear of condoms where you scared of condoms as a kid

-------
get on board the love bus

11:09 am on July 20, 2008 | Joined July 2008 | 28 Days Active
Join to learn more about alexachung is hot England, United Kingdom | Label Free Male | 144 Posts | 424 Points
Smargon


Wealthy Hobo

Patron
Support Leader
Reply
Nervous about performance maybe?
It can happen to everyone at times so don't worry about it. Just relax and enjoy the moment rather than worrying about it.

Or maybe it's the condom like UltimateSatisfaction said.. if that's the case.. get a thinner condom to increase sensitivity.


11:10 am on July 20, 2008 | Joined Jan. 2007 | 183 Days Active
Join to learn more about Smargon England, United Kingdom | Straight Female | 1107 Posts | 4354 Points
lovemetwicetoday


Wealthy Hobo

Patron
Reply
Try some foreplay

-------
I'll leave graffiti where you've never been kissed...
I ♥...

11:12 am on July 20, 2008 | Joined May 2008 | 87 Days Active
Join to learn more about lovemetwicetoday England, United Kingdom | Straight Male | 1818 Posts | 4500 Points
( Anonymous )

Reply
Quote: from outofnowhere at 11:07 am on July 20, 2008

Masterbate a little and quickly put the condom on

i tried that the first night, i stayed soft

i have masturbated with condoms before, and i know its not the feal.

if i amount it to anything i guess it would be nerves, idk.


11:15 am on July 20, 2008
HateParents


Executive
Reply
Quote: from Anonymous at 11:15 am on July 20, 2008

Quote: from outofnowhere at 11:07 am on July 20, 2008

Masterbate a little and quickly put the condom on

i tried that the first night, i stayed soft  

i have masturbated with condoms before, and i know its not the feal.

if i amount it to anything i guess it would be nerves, idk.


You can assume a lot of responses are from kids who have never done anything notably close to sex, so nervousness would be your best bet.

-------
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'll pay,
When tomorrow, tomorrow comes today.


11:17 am on July 20, 2008 | Joined Feb. 2008 | 88 Days Active
Join to learn more about HateParents Washington, United States | Straight Male | 2177 Posts | 3248 Points
( Anonymous )

Reply
Quote: from HateParents at 11:17 am on July 20, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 11:15 am on July 20, 2008

Quote: from outofnowhere at 11:07 am on July 20, 2008

Masterbate a little and quickly put the condom on
 

 i tried that the first night, i stayed soft

 i have masturbated with condoms before, and i know its not the feal.  

 if i amount it to anything i guess it would be nerves, idk.  

 


You can assume a lot of responses are from kids who have never done anything notably close to sex, so nervousness would be your best bet.


i picked that up.....idk if its condiered foreplay, but i basically had her orgasming from going down on her the secound night........it used to make me hard when i did that, it doesnt anymore though.......


11:20 am on July 20, 2008
Single page for this topic Email Print Favorite

Quick Reply

You are signed in as our guest.

Looking for something else?
 

  LiveWire / Teen Forums / Teen Sexuality / Viewing Topic