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I wish I could magically loosen up
Replies: 17Last Post Aug. 23 2:46pm by Lillylove
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Last night my boyfriend and I attempted sex for the first time. He is not a virgin but I am. He fingered me first, he could only get one finger in and it took a long time to get all the way in with a few pains on my part as well. Then he tried to put in his penis but there was NO WAY it was going to fit. I am so tight that it like just slid (thanks to some lube, we thought it would make it easier to get in) down away from my vagina. We were at it for seriously an hour if not more, alternating between fingers and penis and we tried him on top, me on top, and eventually even doggy style but as soon as the head would get in it was just too uncomfortable so we called it a night. But we tried more this morning. He managed to get 2 fingers all the way in me and then the tip of his penis but we had the same problem with it just sliding out if it started to go in at all. Is there something we could be doing to make having sex easier? Or do we just have to keep trying to loosen me up with fingers? I feel like I'm so tight that it will never happen, and his penis is only about average..

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WAY WAY WAY TOO MUCH INFORMATION

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The more turned on you get, the "looser" it gets...
The more nervous you are, the "tighter".

Vagina's don't actually loosen due to sex...


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you were probably just too nervous xx watch some porn? lol

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well you might have to losen your self each time or try losening yourself on your own when he not around eventually you'll be lose before u guys are wantign to do it

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seekingsimplicity


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i imagine that was awkward...
try to masturbate to loosen yourself up.
was it because when he put part of his penis in, it hurt too much and you told him to stop? because the pain is part of the first time... i mean if that was it.

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Quote: from rex reed at 12:19 pm on Aug. 21, 2008

WAY WAY WAY TOO MUCH INFORMATION

That's what this site if for.
HELP.

I think it might just be nerves.
Try to relax yourself next time.
Try a lot of foreplay (i.e. Kissing, fondling etc...)
and one in a while, try fingering yourself (I'm not saying to try and be perverted).
I'm sure things will work out.

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Quote: from seekingsimplicity at 12:21 pm on Aug. 21, 2008

i imagine that was awkward...
try to masturbate to loosen yourself up.
was it because when he put part of his penis in, it hurt too much and you told him to stop? because the pain is part of the first time... i mean if that was it.

it wasn't awkward actually, since we're completely comfortable around each other and we knew I was going to be tight.
It didn't really hurt, the only time it hurt was when he put his fingers in too fast... it was just like there was no way it was getting in.


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Rtheory


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Just take it time. Eventually, however, it should loosen.




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Quote: from ilovetosuck at 12:23 pm on Aug. 21, 2008

Quote: from rex reed at 12:19 pm on Aug. 21, 2008

WAY WAY WAY TOO MUCH INFORMATION

That's what this site if for.
HELP.

I think it might just be nerves.
Try to relax yourself next time.
Try a lot of foreplay (i.e. Kissing, fondling etc...)
and one in a while, try fingering yourself (I'm not saying to try and be perverted).
I'm sure things will work out.


The thing is I did feel really relaxed and we did do A LOT of foreplay. I was being concious of not tensing up my muscles because I knew that would make it harder so I just tried to breathe and relax, and I did feel relaxed.


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spend time on your own masturbating yo.

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make sure ure very turned on and excited.
itll be easier case they say they vagina walls expand...
good luck

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kitten.. try to calm yourself whil doing this stuff with him, it'll make it a lot easier.

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