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Replies: 11Last Post Aug. 21 1:48pm by SoScared
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I go to a christian youth club, not because I'm a christian but because my best friend is and I like to go with her. I usually make no pretence of being a christian.

Last week, I met a nice christian boy who I was instantly attracted to, and he naturally thought that I too was a christian seeing as I was at a christian youth club, so I didn't lie, but I didn't put him straight either. I think he may have liked me but I don't think he would if he knew I wasn't a christian. He seems the type to stick to his own if you know what I mean.

So, I'm faced with the dilemma: Keep faking that I'm a christian and believe in living my life the christian way, or come clean and admit that I'm not religious, even if it may result in him not wanting any more to do with me romantically.


1:27 pm on Aug. 21, 2008
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You could try to accept the lifestyle some more, or you could tell him straight. dont lie

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Be yourself.

Nuff said

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you don't seem to have actually admitted you're a christian, so if he's attracted to you because he thinks you're a christian he's just leading himself on

i'm an atheist and i go to my school's christian fellowship and related retreats and shit because its fun and i enjoy it. everybody knows and nobody cares

e: but yeah if things get serious i would bring it up

Post edited at 1:31 pm on Aug. 21, 2008 by SovSull

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Come clean, Dont lie
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You don't have to be religious to be Christian.

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Lying is the worst possible way to start out a relationship. Come clean; if he really does like you, he might deal with the fact that you're not a Christian.

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You supposed to be motivated by him. There is nothing wrong about being a Christian.

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all a real christian does is love people. As long as you show God's love, you are acting more christian than 90% of the others.

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keep faking it, god will know if you "convert" just to get into his pants

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Quote: from SovSull at 3:29 pm on Aug. 21, 2008

you don't seem to have actually admitted you're a christian, so if he's attracted to you because he thinks you're a christian he's just leading himself on

i'm an atheist and i go to my school's christian fellowship and related retreats and shit because its fun and i enjoy it. everybody knows and nobody cares

e: but yeah if things get serious i would bring it up


i know somebody like that i was church snowboarding trip and there was somebody on the who was an atheist nobody cared

to the OP just be yourself  

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If he lets religion get in the way, then he's not worth it. One of my best friends is Christian, while I'm very existentialist. Instead of agreeing with each other, we have the most spectacular debates and it's a lot of fun.

But yeah, you have to be honest with him or else you really can't have a relationship at all.


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