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( JamesC )
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So ive been going out with my girlfreind for 6 and a half months now and we both get along amazingly, we have loads in common, do loads of stuff together and are generally happy.
Thing is i feel like im imputting more in the relationship then perhaps she is.
I put her above all freinds as well as family, but i dont get the same, even the dog comes above me.
i dont mind being put last sometimes, i expect that, jus not that much.
i dunno maybe theres a thing as loving someone too much. but if thats the case should i play it cool, and in all honesty if i play it cool when she is already playing it cool, then maybe the relationship will become dead cold.
any ideas?
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10:34 am on July 6, 2008 | Joined July 2008 | 19 Days Active
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shialover27
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tell her
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i really really really ♥ jmh7.
keep your pimp hand strong!
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Dark Princess2008
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Maybe you should talk to her about it and let her know how you feel...maybe she doesn't even realize she's putting you last all the time.
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jayney16
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talk to her. tell her how u feel about it
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Distance Doesnt Ruin A Relationship.
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roflfuckyou
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no one can understand girls. not even girls.
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THE SHIP HAS SUNK AND I'M SWIMMING FOR MY LIFE.
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aisling1991
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mine's like that...but i used to like tell my bf what to do too much and then we had some amazing arguement and now i let him do what he wants and he's slowly come round to being more open with me like telling me how he feels about things and i've stopped chasing him so much...i don't text him or ring him as much and keep myself busy with other things and after a while, he comes running back to me...try not to be so there for her when she wants you kinda thing...coz she'll just do whatever she wants and she knows you'll be at the end of the phone when she rings you...otherwise she'll just take advantage and stuff
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tennisplayerV2
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ya you should talk to her now...otherwise...if will eventually come out in a screaming match....get it out now and explain how you feel...TRUST me it is MUCH better that way.
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( JamesC )
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yea she does know she dosnt show her emotions that much and we have talked about that, and its due to her ex's and her mothers upbrigning, but ive had a bad upbringing too, as well as terrible relationships in the past.
i mean how can i play it cool if that is the case that i am there all the time?
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