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anyone who does this should really be s macked across the face hard

Replies: 12 — Last Post July 6 8:29am by prisoner of hss

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when someone tells you about their rough emotional life, you SHUT UP AND LISTEN! and you stick around. you dont just say 'yeah i care' and 'yeah i know how you feel' and drift away from the person slowly. you think people are stupid? they know what youre doing.

not that this happens to me or anything, if i was in that situation id just give a fucking straight answer, none of this passive aggressive bullshit

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Quote from barnabas at 1:00 am on Dec. 4, 2008
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I think it's better to just say you care but make it clear that you don't.

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Wait, what?

Are you saying that sticking with the person and just listening is a good or bad thing?

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i think its better to say you dont care or are not interested

it gets rid of the element of uncertainty quickly and efficiently

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Quote: from Permious at 10:27 am on July 6, 2008

I think it's better to just say you care but make it clear that you don't.

No, it clearly isn't.

I told my sister I really don't care about her guy problems anymore. She hasn't called me at all. :)))))))))))

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PineappleKiss

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I try to give advice. D:

I don't usually drift away, or at least, don't mean to.

Post edited at 7:29 am on July 6, 2008 by PineappleKiss

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Quote: from xoxo1234 at 10:27 am on July 6, 2008

Wait, what?
Are you saying that sticking with the person and just listening is a good or bad thing?

read the post. im saying that thats what you should do, instead of just slowly drifting away while pretending to give a shit

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Quote from barnabas at 1:00 am on Dec. 4, 2008
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ive seen this shit happen to so many people, and ill admit it happened to me when i was much younger, but seriously, people wonder why so many people are miserable

what do you expect, leaving them in uncertainty and shit, especially when they really need help and have a lot of false hope, it drives them crazy

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Quote from barnabas at 1:00 am on Dec. 4, 2008
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Quote: from audrey820 at 10:28 am on July 6, 2008

Quote: from Permious at 10:27 am on July 6, 2008
I think it's better to just say you care but make it clear that you don't.

No, it clearly isn't.
I told my sister I really don't care about her guy problems anymore. She hasn't called me at all. :)))))))))))

yeah clear cut is the way to go

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Quote from barnabas at 1:00 am on Dec. 4, 2008
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and we were left with you.

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sometimes people need to hear that others care for them so they don't feel alone. but apart from that. i totally agree

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its better to know that youre alone than to have some false hope that you arent

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Quote from barnabas at 1:00 am on Dec. 4, 2008
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aisling1991

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people probli do that when they're fed up of listening to the same problems over and over.

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Quote: from aisling1991 at 10:49 am on July 6, 2008

people probli do that when they're fed up of listening to the same problems over and over.

oh some do it even after one or two times

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Quote from barnabas at 1:00 am on Dec. 4, 2008
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