I don't know what to think or feel. Sometimes I feel my boyfriend and I are coming to an end...sometimes I feel that something else may be bothering him. We have been together a year, and we're both adults (19-20 years old). The past 5 days or so, my boyfriend has been acting different. In my view anyways. Obvious signs (to me):
1) We went out to dinner yesterday, and he didn't say hardly anything to me like he usually does
2) He ALWAYS sends me a text RIGHT when he gets to work to let me know he made it safely. Not once in the past year has he forgot to do that. Yesterday--he forgot, and I heard nothing from him until his lunch break at 2:45... And today, he told me he was supposed to be in at 10...I didn't get a text from him until 10:30, saying that he just got there...yet he wasn't late?
3) When he kisses me...they used to be so sincere and all. He'd look me in the eyes and say 'I love you' when he did it. Now...nada
4) When we make love (TMI maybe, sorry) he used to say I love you during it. A few days ago we did, and he didn't say a word...
5) He has always took care of me...he used to always buy my drinks from the store for me. Yesterday, I went to get me a couple of drinks...and he got himself one...and naturally I thought he was gonna pay for it. We get to the register, only to find 'I can't afford all of this'....so I have to pay for it. Not that I didn't mind, but it's the fact that he never asks me to do that... and he got paid the same amount of money as every other week...
Anyways...I talked to him about it, a couple of times, and he assured me that he's not tired of me, he loves me, blah blah..... Then he suggested that maybe the reason I feel that he's so distant is because 'I am getting tired of him'....No way!
I don't know what to do...I have nobody to talk to about this right now...I'm hurting inside... 
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Don't know how he can be bored... 
