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Quote: from Anonymous at 5:04 pm on July 6, 2008
 Quote: from emma19911 at 3:01 pm on July 6, 2008
Quote: from Anonymous at 10:57 pm on July 6, 2008
Quote: from emma19911 at 2:54 pm on July 6, 2008
First things first, the fact that you have been raised together shows it's wrong. If you had met ages after then it wouldn't be as bad. (I'm assuming he's a step brother) It is wrong, because you have been bought up as brother and sister. Also age difference is a large gap. Family would be shocked and possibly disappointed in you. I know they say you can't help who you fall for however I'm sure that you can get over him and find someone who you can be with and is available in a sense your sibling isn't. Also the amount of crap the two of you would get for even thinking about going out really isn't worth it to be honest. 
No, his dad and mom are seprate from mine. But his mom got together with my dad after he was born. And had my other brother. And then, my dad left her for my mom, and had me, and left her for my sisters mom, and is currently in a divorce type thing with her. So....no, were not even step siblings anymore...more like ex-step siblings.
To be honest it's still complicated and has family ties. I say why not go for someone more your age range and someone who doesn't have such a familt connection. I'm sure if you look around then you will find willing guys!
Yeah, I know, iv had some boyfriends. But haven't even been able to kiss one of them.
Yet when I look at him, I get all giggly and stuff. And im not the type of girl to be giggly. Its just a feeling....gah, I don't know how to explain it.
That's not called 'being in love'. That's called 'having a crush'.
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Quote: from bluerosedangel at 3:06 pm on July 6, 2008
Quote: from Anonymous at 5:04 pm on July 6, 2008
Quote: from emma19911 at 3:01 pm on July 6, 2008
Quote: from Anonymous at 10:57 pm on July 6, 2008
Quote: from emma19911 at 2:54 pm on July 6, 2008
First things first, the fact that you have been raised together shows it's wrong. If you had met ages after then it wouldn't be as bad. (I'm assuming he's a step brother) It is wrong, because you have been bought up as brother and sister. Also age difference is a large gap. Family would be shocked and possibly disappointed in you. I know they say you can't help who you fall for however I'm sure that you can get over him and find someone who you can be with and is available in a sense your sibling isn't. Also the amount of crap the two of you would get for even thinking about going out really isn't worth it to be honest.
No, his dad and mom are seprate from mine. But his mom got together with my dad after he was born. And had my other brother. And then, my dad left her for my mom, and had me, and left her for my sisters mom, and is currently in a divorce type thing with her. So....no, were not even step siblings anymore...more like ex-step siblings.
To be honest it's still complicated and has family ties. I say why not go for someone more your age range and someone who doesn't have such a familt connection. I'm sure if you look around then you will find willing guys!
Yeah, I know, iv had some boyfriends. But haven't even been able to kiss one of them.
Yet when I look at him, I get all giggly and stuff. And im not the type of girl to be giggly. Its just a feeling....gah, I don't know how to explain it.
That's not called 'being in love'. That's called 'having a crush'.
Iv had crushes before, it was nothing like this. This is so diffrent...so... real. Genuine. Like once, before we admited the feelings, we were watching a scary movie...I forget the name, but I jumped, and he laughed and put his arm around me. And I snuggled into him to hid my face, I felt so safe...and relaxed.
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Quote: from Anonymous at 5:10 pm on July 6, 2008
Quote: from emma19911 at 3:05 pm on July 6, 2008
Is it really worth the arguments that will happen between the family, the looks that you will get because he would be dating a minor. Have you thought about it seriously enough to think of not only how it could affect you but those around you
Yes, yes it is. At least, I think it is.
Seriously, you're 14. There will be other guys. You haven't even begun life. You don't even know what love is, let alone know what guys are like his age. He may be being all 'nicey-nice, lovey-dovey' w/e when he's with you, but if you're okay with him having 'girls on the side', that's really fucked up and he's not in love with you.
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Quote: from emma19911 at 3:12 pm on July 6, 2008
Quote: from Anonymous at 11:10 pm on July 6, 2008
Quote: from emma19911 at 3:05 pm on July 6, 2008
Is it really worth the arguments that will happen between the family, the looks that you will get because he would be dating a minor. Have you thought about it seriously enough to think of not only how it could affect you but those around you
Yes, yes it is. At least, I think it is.
If your serious about going for it then be prepared for shit and that because it won't be easy. Once you are together you will continue to get trouble for your relationship and you will eventually think to one another is it really worth it, and end up splitting up because it causes arguments between on another. You do realise if you do he can get put in jail if the two of you ever did anything. you need to look at the seriousness of the situation, which i don't think you have.
We have, we thought it over. And currently, he is actually sitting right here next to me. And agrees completely.
Hes been in jail before, and doesn't want to go back. But says if its something he beleives in then yes, he would even die for it.
And I agree with him completely.
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Quote: from bluerosedangel at 3:13 pm on July 6, 2008
Quote: from Anonymous at 5:10 pm on July 6, 2008
Quote: from emma19911 at 3:05 pm on July 6, 2008
Is it really worth the arguments that will happen between the family, the looks that you will get because he would be dating a minor. Have you thought about it seriously enough to think of not only how it could affect you but those around you
Yes, yes it is. At least, I think it is.
Seriously, you're 14. There will be other guys. You haven't even begun life. You don't even know what love is, let alone know what guys are like his age. He may be being all 'nicey-nice, lovey-dovey' w/e when he's with you, but if you're okay with him having 'girls on the side', that's really fucked up and he's not in love with you.
Damn it, im trying to tell you. He is sitting right here next to me. And is telling me that the girls on the side are nothing to him. That he loves me.
I feel its real.
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Quote: from Anonymous at 5:16 pm on July 6, 2008
Quote: from bluerosedangel at 3:13 pm on July 6, 2008
Quote: from Anonymous at 5:10 pm on July 6, 2008
Quote: from emma19911 at 3:05 pm on July 6, 2008
Is it really worth the arguments that will happen between the family, the looks that you will get because he would be dating a minor. Have you thought about it seriously enough to think of not only how it could affect you but those around you
Yes, yes it is. At least, I think it is.
Seriously, you're 14. There will be other guys. You haven't even begun life. You don't even know what love is, let alone know what guys are like his age. He may be being all 'nicey-nice, lovey-dovey' w/e when he's with you, but if you're okay with him having 'girls on the side', that's really fucked up and he's not in love with you.
Damn it, im trying to tell you. He is sitting right here next to me. And is telling me that the girls on the side are nothing to him. That he loves me.
I feel its real.
I'm really sorry to be rude, but when he 'dumps' you or w/e you want to put it, please don't come crying to us because we tried to tell you and help you out before it happened. We're only trying to help you. And seriously, if you did not want our opinions on the matter, quite frankly you should not have asked.
I'm his age, sweetie, and 95% of guys his age, use girls for sex and dump them the next day. I don't think your case is any different. Because you said yourself after quoting my original post that you don't think he can wait to have sex until you're 'legal', which means one, he'll find other girls to fuck, or two, he'll do it to you where he can get in trouble for you being a minor.
That's the blunt truth. We're only trying to help you before it comes, because you guys aren't going to be together forever. And girls your age are fragile and freak out over stuff.
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