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Honestly I feel pedophiles get a bad rap
Replies: 23Last Post July 5 12:35pm by Periwinkle
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It seems to me that a lot of people have a big problem separating a "pedophile" from a "child molester." A teenage friend of mine was just banned from a 13+ site when the administration found out he admitted to being a pedophile somewhere, even though he said he found the idea of harming a child to be repulsive in the same breath.  

There are a lot of potentially harmful fetishes and philias people by-and-large will tolerate, like sadism and non-consensual sex. This does not exist in Japan where I grew up--is the problem with pedophiles who don't own child pornography or chase kids something unique to the United States? And how did this come about? Even outright violence can seemingly be sexualized here without too much of a reaction from people.

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aren't you considered a pedo (by law) if you are 18, but have sex with say..a 17 year old?  (In The USA)

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yeah
we also shouldn't treat schizophrenics as any different from us until they go out and kill 15 prostitutes and wear their skin as clothing

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Quote: from gonknebraska at 8:14 pm on July 5, 2008

aren't you considered a pedo (by law) if you are 18, but have sex with say..a 17 year old? (In The USA)

You still get put on the sex offenders register for that here..

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Quote: from gonknebraska at 12:14 pm on July 5, 2008

aren't you considered a pedo (by law) if you are 18, but have sex with say..a 17 year old?  (In The USA)

no thats rape though, depending on the state.

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No,  pedophilia isn't an act, it is a philia. What you're talking about is child molestation--and there is a "close-in-age" clause in most states for people who are only a few years apart.

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Quote: from gonknebraska at 12:14 pm on July 5, 2008

aren't you considered a pedo (by law) if you are 18, but have sex with say..a 17 year old? (In The USA)

no there's a grace period of about 2 years.
also age of consent varies by state

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Quote: from rawrr at 8:16 pm on July 5, 2008

Quote: from gonknebraska at 12:14 pm on July 5, 2008

aren't you considered a pedo (by law) if you are 18, but have sex with say..a 17 year old? (In The USA)

no thats rape though, depending on the state.


It's statutory rape.

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People generally aren't keen on their children being touched by older men and women, and they never will be. Regardless of how things worked in your previous country, or back in the day.

Other fetishes get bad looks too, it's not just pedophilia. There are fetishes that are considered just that, fetishes, and fetishes that are considered to be sexual disorders that should be looked at as dangerous. Many times, that can be spot on.

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Quote: from mikeyp123 at 8:15 pm on July 5, 2008

Quote: from gonknebraska at 8:14 pm on July 5, 2008

aren't you considered a pedo (by law) if you are 18, but have sex with say..a 17 year old?  (In The USA)

You still get put on the sex offenders register for that here..


well that's even worse!  All these 15/16 year old girls keep looking older to my eyes!

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Quote: from Praise the Lard at 3:15 pm on July 5, 2008

yeah
we also shouldn't treat schizophrenics as any different from us until they go out and kill 15 prostitutes and wear their skin as clothing

You has a point

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They deserve one for what they do.

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Quote: from mikeyp123 at 3:16 pm on July 5, 2008

Quote: from rawrr at 8:16 pm on July 5, 2008

Quote: from gonknebraska at 12:14 pm on July 5, 2008

aren't you considered a pedo (by law) if you are 18, but have sex with say..a 17 year old?  (In The USA)
 

 no thats rape though, depending on the state.


 

It's statutory rape.


Not if the person is above the age of consent and the parents do not press charges.

Post edited at 12:17 pm on July 5, 2008 by The Raven

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Quote: from Praise the Lard at 1:15 pm on July 5, 2008

yeah
we also shouldn't treat schizophrenics as any different from us until they go out and kill 15 prostitutes and wear their skin as clothing

Pretty much.

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Quote: from fenrir at 1:17 pm on July 5, 2008

They deserve one for what they do.
They deserve a bad rap because of their thoughts?

Damn, you are a fucking moron.

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