but i have the biggest crush on my guyfriend, and every thinks he has a crush on me. i honestly think he does too.

but he's the type of guy who goes around going "damn shes hot" and looks at the model types. and i feel insecure. everyone tells me im pretty, but i deffinately dont think model type. he has said "oh i dont go much on looks, as long as your okay looking i will date you" but i know he wants a good looking girl.

he grabs my butt alot, and says "he'd do me" alot. and is sexual with me alot. would that mean he finds me attractive? do i have something to worry about? i know its weird, but im so insecure when he sees those models on tv and stuff and i feel bad

Post edited at 11:42 pm on July 8, 2008 by prettymagik

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he grabs my butt alot, and says "he'd do me" alot. and is sexual with me alot

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You.. let me believe...
and then I failed again.

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He probably just wants sex Sex SEx SEX!!!!!!SEXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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im sure he probably likes you. but he might just want to have sex with you and it might have nothing to do with him liking you and wanting to be with you with you.

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I think this poster hit the nail on the head.  However I would remove the word "might."  I think it is fair to say that he is a jerk and extremely disrespectful of you.  He doesn't care if you are attractive or not as long as you permit him to be sexual with him.  

If you have no self respect, and you don't or you wouldn't allow him to grab your butt, how can you expect him to respect you?

If you had smacked him in the face and told him to never touch you again he would have respected you.  However you think that permitting him access to your body will make him like you.  It is true that he will like that part of your body that you permit him access to but not you as a person.  

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Quote: from JuggaletteBaby at 11:43 pm on July 8, 2008

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im sure he probably likes you. but he might just want to have sex with you and it might have nothing to do with him liking you and wanting to be with you with you.

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I think this poster hit the nail on the head. However I would remove the word "might." I think it is fair to say that he is a jerk and extremely disrespectful of you. He doesn't care if you are attractive or not as long as you permit him to be sexual with him.

If you have no self respect, and you don't or you wouldn't allow him to grab your butt, how can you expect him to respect you?

If you had smacked him in the face and told him to never touch you again he would have respected you. However you think that permitting him access to your body will make him like you. It is true that he will like that part of your body that you permit him access to but not you as a person.

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don't worry, i yelled at him.  i wouldnt just let him do that.

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