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Replies: 55Last Post July 9 11:01pm by Erin Puff
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Quote: from Erin Puff at 4:40 pm on July 9, 2008

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Quote: from Duke at 9:19 am on July 9, 2008

It's nice to know the whole rape story was a scam, made up by the OP to cover up what really happened, which is what she said initially, she cheated on her boyfriend. Now she goes to the story that she doesn't want to hurt someone she loves, because she did something with someone she "likes." When that didn't fly to ease her conscience, she suddenly goes hostile and cooks up the rape scenario. I don't know many people describe rape as cheating, or the rapist as someone that they "like." She claims that she phrased it that way because she has friends here so she didn't want them to know. The only problem with that, is that all she had to do was come up with a totally unconnected screenname and information when she joined LW and none of her "friends" would have ever known who the OP was, not to mention that it could have all been posted anonymously. Then the complete meltdown comes on, and the OP lashes into Bluerosedangel and basically admits that she's a liar and a cheat, not to mention slightly scary.

  My, my, as the saying goes: What a web we do weave, when first we practice to deceive. Hmm, all in all, I would say it was not a good first day for Erin Puff. Hey Puff, welcome to LW.


 

 Well you know what gets me, is that she said she has "friends" on this site. So, I'm thinking in my head, wtf are friends there for if you don't tell them stuff and/or don't trust them with the information? Because that's what friends are for. It's what you originally said about her bf, she obviously doesn't understand the obligations of being a gf, and obviously doesnt understand the obligations and connections of having friends. She should be talking to her fucking friends about this kind of situation and asking them for advice, instead of total fucking strangers, because if they're her "friends" as she claims them to be, they know her alot better than any of us do.  


If you don't like it, don't give me advice. Plain and simple, and there's ' in doesn't. and its a lot, not alot.



If I want to give you shitty advice, I will. Because after all, it's what you said, this is a "Post your random shit here" forum. AndI wasn't the only one doing it, so start putting your head up their ass before mine, thank you.

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Quote: from bluerosedangel at 2:48 pm on July 9, 2008

Quote: from Erin Puff at 4:40 pm on July 9, 2008

Quote: from bluerosedangel at 2:36 pm on July 9, 2008

Quote: from Duke at 9:19 am on July 9, 2008

It's nice to know the whole rape story was a scam, made up by the OP to cover up what really happened, which is what she said initially, she cheated on her boyfriend. Now she goes to the story that she doesn't want to hurt someone she loves, because she did something with someone she "likes." When that didn't fly to ease her conscience, she suddenly goes hostile and cooks up the rape scenario. I don't know many people describe rape as cheating, or the rapist as someone that they "like." She claims that she phrased it that way because she has friends here so she didn't want them to know. The only problem with that, is that all she had to do was come up with a totally unconnected screenname and information when she joined LW and none of her "friends" would have ever known who the OP was, not to mention that it could have all been posted anonymously. Then the complete meltdown comes on, and the OP lashes into Bluerosedangel and basically admits that she's a liar and a cheat, not to mention slightly scary.      

  My, my, as the saying goes: What a web we do weave, when first we practice to deceive. Hmm, all in all, I would say it was not a good first day for Erin Puff. Hey Puff, welcome to LW.


  Well you know what gets me, is that she said she has "friends" on this site. So, I'm thinking in my head, wtf are friends there for if you don't tell them stuff and/or don't trust them with the information? Because that's what friends are for. It's what you originally said about her bf, she obviously doesn't understand the obligations of being a gf, and obviously doesnt understand the obligations and connections of having friends. She should be talking to her fucking friends about this kind of situation and asking them for advice, instead of total fucking strangers, because if they're her "friends" as she claims them to be, they know her alot better than any of us do.


 

 If you don't like it, don't give me advice. Plain and simple, and there's  '  in doesn't. and its a lot, not alot.



If I want to give you shitty advice, I will. Because after all, it's what you said, this is a "Post your random shit here" forum. And wasn't the only one doing it, so start putting your head up their ass before mine, thank you.

Your welcome, but I was just saying that if your going to complain about me asking advice for a stupid thing, don't worry about it if it bothers you that much.

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Quote: from Erin Puff at 4:51 pm on July 9, 2008

Your welcome, but I was just saying that if your going to complain about me asking advice for a stupid thing, don't worry about it if it bothers you that much.

How can we give you proper advice if you change your story within the post? First you say you cheated and lost your virginity at the same time, than you changed it to make it look like you got raped. It's like I told you before, I'm not the only one who's going to give you COMPLETELY different advice for the two different situations. And again, I will worry about it if I want to. This is a post your random shit in other people's posts forum.

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Quote: from bluerosedangel at 3:06 pm on July 9, 2008

Quote: from Erin Puff at 4:51 pm on July 9, 2008

Your welcome, but I was just saying that if your going to complain about me asking advice for a stupid thing, don't worry about it if it bothers you that much.

How can we give you proper advice if you change your story within the post? First you say you cheated and lost your virginity at the same time, than you changed it to make it look like you got raped. It's like I told you before, I'm not the only one who's going to give you COMPLETELY different advice for the two different situations. And again, I will worry about it if I want to. This is a post your random shit in other people's posts forum.


If your doing this just to piss me off, please, don't. If your going to say some more, again, please don't. It's rude.

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Quote: from Erin Puff at 6:20 pm on July 9, 2008

Quote: from bluerosedangel at 3:06 pm on July 9, 2008

Quote: from Erin Puff at 4:51 pm on July 9, 2008

Your welcome, but I was just saying that if your going to complain about me asking advice for a stupid thing, don't worry about it if it bothers you that much.
 

 How can we give you proper advice if you change your story within the post? First you say you cheated and lost your virginity at the same time, than you changed it to make it look like you got raped. It's like I told you before, I'm not the only one who's going to give you COMPLETELY different advice for the two different situations. And again, I will worry about it if I want to. This is a post your random shit in other people's posts forum.


If your doing this just to piss me off, please, don't. If your going to say some more, again, please don't. It's rude.


She has a point, though. If you're going to change your story every three posts, how are people to know how best to advise you?

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Quote: from exceedinglyrare at 3:44 pm on July 9, 2008

Quote: from Erin Puff at 6:20 pm on July 9, 2008

Quote: from bluerosedangel at 3:06 pm on July 9, 2008

Quote: from Erin Puff at 4:51 pm on July 9, 2008

Your welcome, but I was just saying that if your going to complain about me asking advice for a stupid thing, don't worry about it if it bothers you that much.

  How can we give you proper advice if you change your story within the post? First you say you cheated and lost your virginity at the same time, than you changed it to make it look like you got raped. It's like I told you before, I'm not the only one who's going to give you COMPLETELY different advice for the two different situations. And again, I will worry about it if I want to. This is a post your random shit in other people's posts forum.


 

 If your doing this just to piss me off, please, don't. If your going to say some more, again, please don't. It's rude.


She has a point, though. If you're going to change your story every three posts, how are people to know how best to advise you?


I deleate the post.

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Quote: from Erin Puff at 11:54 am on July 9, 2008

Quote: from kooljack1 at 8:39 am on July 9, 2008

Since I am so confused right now, I am just going to not bash and give real advice-  

 If it was truly rape, then tell your boyfriend, and your parents. Being forced into sex can screw with your mind set, and if it was forced sex with a guy you hardly know, then he might have an STD, get checked. If it was Rape, then turn the guy in, thats jail right there.  

 And if it wasnt Rape- You made a mistake, you can't just pretend it didnt happen, im not calling you a liar, I don't have a choice but to believe since you are right, you only know, but if its not Rape, then still tell your boyfriend, and tell him how sorry you are and that it will never happen again, and see how it goes from there.  

 Good Luck


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Your welcome, I dont agree with everyone bashing you, even though it seems unlikly, its fine, I hope my advice helped a little:)

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Quote: from kooljack1 at 8:44 pm on July 9, 2008

Quote: from Erin Puff at 11:54 am on July 9, 2008

Quote: from kooljack1 at 8:39 am on July 9, 2008

Since I am so confused right now, I am just going to not bash and give real advice-

  If it was truly rape, then tell your boyfriend, and your parents. Being forced into sex can screw with your mind set, and if it was forced sex with a guy you hardly know, then he might have an STD, get checked. If it was Rape, then turn the guy in, thats jail right there.

  And if it wasnt Rape- You made a mistake, you can't just pretend it didnt happen, im not calling you a liar, I don't have a choice but to believe since you are right, you only know, but if its not Rape, then still tell your boyfriend, and tell him how sorry you are and that it will never happen again, and see how it goes from there.

  Good Luck


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 thankyou, I enjoy reading answers like this.


 
Your welcome, I dont agree with everyone bashing you, even though it seems unlikly, its fine, I hope my advice helped a little:)


yes, it did

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good, then im glad I helped, PM me if you ever need anything else

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Are you ashamed of yourself? You should be. Cheating isn't ever right.

Anyways, you should tell him.

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Quote: from katjassidekick at 10:44 pm on July 9, 2008

Are you ashamed of yourself? You should be. Cheating isn't ever right.

Anyways, you should tell him.


yes I am ashamed

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