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Quote: from Duke at 2:21 am on July 9, 2008

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Quote: from Erin Puff at 4:14 am on July 9, 2008

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I don't go around screwing other people for fun, it was one guy, it was an accident, ok. Does that get through your brain, you stupid ass, when someone compliments you, you take it and except it, (and incase you've forgotten I said that the first answer you posted was good) are you going to trash me some more or are you going to just shut up. If you've cheated on someone one before than I apologize for calling you an ass, but if not. THEN FUCK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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 Oh I love it. The anger bit. So when you had sex with this other guy ACCIDENTALLY, it wasn't for fun? Why should I care about your complimenting me. I'm here to exchange ideas and answer questions when I can. You accused me of trashing you. I'm just trying to understand how I'm trashing you. Now you've backed yourself into a corner, and you cannot rationally answer the questions, so you resort to tantrums and name calling. But the question is not whether I'm an ass or whether you should fuck me, but a real simple one. Do you not understand one of the obligations of being a girlfriend to be not having sex with other people? That's easy enough. Then if you do understand that to be one of the obligations, did you not fail in honoring that obligation? You just don't want to face up to what you set in motion, and you avoid the questions by name calling and FUCK YOU's. Well that nice, but it doesn't faze me. I still would like to know your answers.

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I was raped ok, I didn't want to pose a big issue, because some of my friends have accounts here. Is that a good enough answer for you, are you happy. I will resort to swearing, FUCK OFF!!!

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OK, the bullshit meter just went off the board! "I lost my virginity and cheated on my boyfriend at the same time", she says.  Backed into a corner from which she cannot escape, seeing that cursing and name calling is not an effective outlet, she tries a new tact. "I WAS RAPED!"  Yeah, most people would call being raped "cheating." Sorry Puff, that one was one of your worst efforts in this whole conversation. Stick with your original and true version, you cheated; now go figure out what you're going to do about it (we both already know the answer to that one, don't we?). Goodnight.

Accidentally had sex.....LOL

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Quote: from Erin Puff at 4:25 am on July 9, 2008

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Quote: from Duke at 2:21 am on July 9, 2008

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Quote: from Erin Puff at 4:14 am on July 9, 2008

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I don't go around screwing other people for fun, it was one guy, it was an accident, ok. Does that get through your brain, you stupid ass,  when someone compliments you, you take it and except it, (and incase you've forgotten I said that the first answer you posted was good) are you going to trash me some more or are you going to just shut up. If you've cheated on someone one before than I apologize for calling  you an ass, but if not. THEN FUCK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  Oh I love it. The anger bit. So when you had sex with this other guy ACCIDENTALLY, it wasn't for fun? Why should I care about your complimenting me. I'm here to exchange ideas and answer questions when I can. You accused me of trashing you. I'm just trying to understand how I'm trashing you. Now you've backed yourself into a corner, and you cannot rationally answer the questions, so you resort to tantrums and name calling. But the question is not whether I'm an ass or whether you should fuck me, but a real simple one. Do you not understand one of the obligations of being a girlfriend to be not having sex with other people? That's easy enough. Then if you do understand that to be one of the obligations, did you not fail in honoring that obligation? You just don't want to face up to what you set in motion, and you avoid the questions by name calling and FUCK Your's. Well that nice, but it doesn't faze me. I still would like to know your answers.

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 I was raped ok, I didn't want to pose a big issue, because some of my friends have accounts here. Is that a good enough answer for you, are you happy. I will resort to swearing, FUCK OFF!!!

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Rape and cheating, are 2 ENTIRELY different concepts. If you were forced to have sex, than that is not cheating on your bf, and if you told him you got raped, than he might understand. And seriously, if it was rape, what you originally posted makes ABSOLUTELY no sense to me.

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I posted it like so because I didn't want someone I knew to see it and then ask me, this is why I joined this sight, so I could say anything and not get put in a hospital. I posted it like that because it was easier for me to admit saying it like that, rather then saying I was raped.

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Quote: from Erin Puff at 4:25 am on July 9, 2008

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Quote: from Duke at 2:21 am on July 9, 2008

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Quote: from Erin Puff at 4:14 am on July 9, 2008

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I don't go around screwing other people for fun, it was one guy, it was an accident, ok. Does that get through your brain, you stupid ass,  when someone compliments you, you take it and except it, (and incase you've forgotten I said that the first answer you posted was good) are you going to trash me some more or are you going to just shut up. If you've cheated on someone one before than I apologize for calling  you an ass, but if not. THEN FUCK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  Oh I love it. The anger bit. So when you had sex with this other guy ACCIDENTALLY, it wasn't for fun? Why should I care about your complimenting me. I'm here to exchange ideas and answer questions when I can. You accused me of trashing you. I'm just trying to understand how I'm trashing you. Now you've backed yourself into a corner, and you cannot rationally answer the questions, so you resort to tantrums and name calling. But the question is not whether I'm an ass or whether you should fuck me, but a real simple one. Do you not understand one of the obligations of being a girlfriend to be not having sex with other people? That's easy enough. Then if you do understand that to be one of the obligations, did you not fail in honoring that obligation? You just don't want to face up to what you set in motion, and you avoid the questions by name calling and FUCK YOU's. Well that nice, but it doesn't faze me. I still would like to know your answers.

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 I was raped ok, I didn't want to pose a big issue, because some of my friends have accounts here. Is that a good enough answer for you, are you happy. I will resort to swearing, FUCK OFF!!!

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OK, the bullshit meter just went off the board! "I lost my virginity and cheated on my boyfriend at the same time", she says. Backed into a corner from which she cannot escape, seeing that cursing and name calling is not an effective outlet, she tries a new tact. "I WAS RAPED!" Yeah, most people would call being raped "cheating." Sorry Puff, that one was one of your worst efforts in this whole conversation. Stick with your original and true version, you cheated; now go figure out what you're going to do about it (we both already know the answer to that one, don't we?). Goodnight.

 
Accidentally had sex.....LOL

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If you don't like what I have to say, then stop posting that bull crap on my bulletin, if you don't like KISS MY ASS, oh look, another swear word, what are you going to do, tell me off some more, maby I'm doing this just to piss you off, maby I'm making the whole thing up, just for you. But you know what, I honestly don't care anymore, that's one thing I'm not lying about. My obligations as a girlfriend are to know whats right, but your obligation as a person, well, thats for you to figure out. Goodnight to you too.

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I posted it like so because I didn't want someone I knew to see it and then ask me, this is why I joined this sight, so I could say anything and not get put in a hospital. I posted it like that because it was easier for me to admit saying it like that, rather then saying I was raped.

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"Ok so I lost my virginity and cheated on my boyfriend at the same time. What do I do? Should I tell him, or just let it go?" SERIOUSLY. You're going to get COMPLETELY DIFFERENT ANSWERS saying it the way you did, as opposed to saying you got raped. Seriously. By saying you lost your virginity and cheated, honest to god, people will call you a whore and tell you that you shouldn't have done it, and that he needs to know that you weren't faithful. But if you were to have said that you got raped and was out of your control, you might not have had this whole cherade with duke. Like I said before, they're 2 COMPLETELY different concepts. Cheating is when you knowingly are with another partner, and being raped is out of your control.
And cussing at duke, will make you look even more immature than what you really are, and will make people NOT take you seriously.

Post edited at 2:39 am on July 9, 2008 by bluerosedangel

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Quote: from Erin Puff at 4:32 am on July 9, 2008

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I posted it like so because I didn't want someone I knew to see it and then ask me, this is why I joined this sight, so I could say anything and not get put in a hospital. I posted it like that because it was easier for me to admit saying it like that, rather then saying I was raped.

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"Ok so I lost my virginity and cheated on my boyfriend at the same time. What do I do? Should I tell him, or just let it go?" SERIOUSLY. You're going to get COMPLETELY DIFFERENT ANSWERS saying it the way you did, as opposed to saying you got raped. Seriously. By saying you lost your virginity and cheated, honest to god, people will call you a whore and tell you that you shouldn't have done it, and that he needs to know that you weren't faithful. But if you were to have said that you got raped and was out of your control, you might not have had this whole cherade with duke. Like I said before, they're 2 COMPLETELY different concepts. Cheating is when you knowingly are with another partner, and being raped is out of your control.
And cussing at duke, will make you look even more immature than what you really are, and will make people NOT take you seriously.

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I know what rape is, and cheating. But it accutaly makes me feel better to piss him off, I think it gave him something to do as well. Like I told him, maby this is all a lie, maby it isn't. I know what happend, and you don't, neirther does duke, I ask for advice and he had to pry. good night, pleasent dreams, have a good day.

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Than that makes you stupid AND immature. Grow up 14 year old. Stop being an attention whore. People are never going to take your stupid ass seriously or feel sorry for you if you make up shit, and then miserably fail when trying to make stuff up as you go along. And like I said in an earlier post, we don't in fact know what the fuck goes on in your head, so I dont understand why you're even coming to us asking us WHAT IT IS YOU should do.  
Freaking teenagers I swear to god.

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Quote: from Erin Puff at 4:41 am on July 9, 2008Quote: from bluerosedangel at 2:38 am on July 9, 2008I know what rape is, and cheating. But it accutaly makes me feel better to piss him off, I think it gave him something to do as well. Like I told him, maby this is all a lie, maby it isn't. I know what happend, and you don't, neirther does duke, I ask for advice and he had to pry. good night, pleasent dreams, have a good day.

Than that makes you stupid AND immature. Grow up 14 year old. Stop being an attention whore. People are never going to take your stupid ass seriously or feel sorry for you if you make up shit, and then miserably fail when trying to make stuff up as you go along. And like I said in an earlier post, we don't in fact know what the fuck goes on in your head, so I dont understand why you're even coming to us asking us WHAT IT IS YOU should do.  
Freaking teenagers I swear to god.

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One: don't swear to god
Two: other people post the same shit as I do, I'm sorry if some people don't happen to like it. Apparently you are one of those people, notice no one else said anything about it. Maby I'm not 14, I could be lying about my age to. Really, if anyones imature it's you, this is a website where people post random crap, people answere and leave, end of story. I'm sick of people telling me that I have no idea what the hell I'm doing. I ask because I fucken feel like it. You don't like it, tough noodles.

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Quote: from bluerosedangel at 2:45 am on July 9, 2008

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Quote: from Erin Puff at 4:41 am on July 9, 2008Quote: from bluerosedangel at 2:38 am on July 9, 2008I know what rape is, and cheating. But it accutaly makes me feel better to piss him off, I think it gave him something to do as well. Like I told him, maby this is all a lie, maby it isn't. I know what happend, and you don't, neirther does duke, I ask for advice and he had to pry. good night, pleasent dreams, have a good day.  

 Than that makes you stupid AND immature. Grow up 14 year old. Stop being an attention whore. People are never going to take your stupid ass seriously or feel sorry for you if you make up shit, and then miserably fail when trying to make stuff up as you go along. And like I said in an earlier post, we don't in fact know what the fuck goes on in your head, so I dont understand why you're even coming to us asking us WHAT IT IS YOU should do.  
 Freaking teenagers I swear to god.

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One: don't swear to god
Two: other people post the same shit as I do, I'm sorry if some people don't happen to like it. Apparently you are one of those people, notice no one else said anything about it. Maby I'm not 14, I could be lying about my age to. Really, if anyones imature it's you, this is a website where people post random crap, people answere and leave, end of story. I'm sick of people telling me that I have no idea what the hell I'm doing. I ask because I fucken feel like it. You don't like it, tough noodles.

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My, my, as the saying goes: What a web we do weave, when first we practice to deceive. Hmm, all in all, I would say it was not a good first day for Erin Puff. Hey Puff, welcome to LW.

Post edited at 7:24 am on July 9, 2008 by Duke

If it was truly rape, then tell your boyfriend, and your parents. Being forced into sex can screw with your mind set, and if it was forced sex with a guy you hardly know, then he might have an STD, get checked. If it was Rape, then turn the guy in, thats jail right there.

And if it wasnt Rape- You made a mistake, you can't just pretend it didnt happen, im not calling you a liar, I don't have a choice but to believe since you are right, you only know, but if its not Rape, then still tell your boyfriend, and tell him how sorry you are and that it will never happen again, and see how it goes from there.

Good Luck

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Since I am so confused right now, I am just going to not bash and give real advice-

If it was truly rape, then tell your boyfriend, and your parents. Being forced into sex can screw with your mind set, and if it was forced sex with a guy you hardly know, then he might have an STD, get checked. If it was Rape, then turn the guy in, thats jail right there.

And if it wasnt Rape- You made a mistake, you can't just pretend it didnt happen, im not calling you a liar, I don't have a choice but to believe since you are right, you only know, but if its not Rape, then still tell your boyfriend, and tell him how sorry you are and that it will never happen again, and see how it goes from there.

Good Luck

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thankyou, I enjoy reading answers like this.

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It's nice to know the whole rape story was a scam, made up by the OP to cover up what really happened, which is what she said initially, she cheated on her boyfriend. Now she goes to the story that she doesn't want to hurt someone she loves, because she did something with someone she "likes." When that didn't fly to ease her conscience, she suddenly goes hostile and cooks up the rape scenario. I don't know many people describe rape as cheating, or the rapist as someone that they "like." She claims that she phrased it that way because she has friends here so she didn't want them to know. The only problem with that, is that all she had to do was come up with a totally unconnected screenname and information when she joined LW and none of her "friends" would have ever known who the OP was, not to mention that it could have all been posted anonymously. Then the complete meltdown comes on, and the OP lashes into Bluerosedangel and basically admits that she's a liar and a cheat, not to mention slightly scary.

My, my, as the saying goes: What a web we do weave, when first we practice to deceive. Hmm, all in all, I would say it was not a good first day for Erin Puff. Hey Puff, welcome to LW.

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Well you know what gets me, is that she said she has "friends" on this site. So, I'm thinking in my head, wtf are friends there for if you don't tell them stuff and/or don't trust them with the information? Because that's what friends are for. It's what you originally said about her bf, she obviously doesn't understand the obligations of being a gf, and obviously doesnt understand the obligations and connections of having friends. She should be talking to her fucking friends about this kind of situation and asking them for advice, instead of total fucking strangers, because if they're her "friends" as she claims them to be, they know her alot better than any of us do.  

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Quote: from Duke at 9:19 am on July 9, 2008

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It's nice to know the whole rape story was a scam, made up by the OP to cover up what really happened, which is what she said initially, she cheated on her boyfriend. Now she goes to the story that she doesn't want to hurt someone she loves, because she did something with someone she "likes." When that didn't fly to ease her conscience, she suddenly goes hostile and cooks up the rape scenario. I don't know many people describe rape as cheating, or the rapist as someone that they "like." She claims that she phrased it that way because she has friends here so she didn't want them to know. The only problem with that, is that all she had to do was come up with a totally unconnected screenname and information when she joined LW and none of her "friends" would have ever known who the OP was, not to mention that it could have all been posted anonymously. Then the complete meltdown comes on, and the OP lashes into Bluerosedangel and basically admits that she's a liar and a cheat, not to mention slightly scary.    

 My, my, as the saying goes: What a web we do weave, when first we practice to deceive. Hmm, all in all, I would say it was not a good first day for Erin Puff. Hey Puff, welcome to LW.

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Well you know what gets me, is that she said she has "friends" on this site. So, I'm thinking in my head, wtf are friends there for if you don't tell them stuff and/or don't trust them with the information? Because that's what friends are for. It's what you originally said about her bf, she obviously doesn't understand the obligations of being a gf, and obviously doesnt understand the obligations and connections of having friends. She should be talking to her fucking friends about this kind of situation and asking them for advice, instead of total fucking strangers, because if they're her "friends" as she claims them to be, they know her alot better than any of us do.

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If you don't like it, don't give me advice. Plain and simple, and there's  '  in doesn't. and its a lot, not alot.

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