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Stautory Rape or Not
Replies: 12Last Post July 4 9:58pm by Shogun villimax
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My boyfriend(age 20) and I(age 16) just broke up. While we were dating we had sex twice and I gave him head twice. The night before we had sex he tryed to have sex but I kept saying no, and he tryed about five more times before he gave up and went to sleep. But the night we did have sex, he kept trying to get me to give him a hand job, and after saying no twice I finally just did. The two nights I gave him head he would push my head down to give him head even tho I didnt want to, but while I was giving him head he would push my head down to point were I couldnt breath so I would end up gaging. I told him no to giving him a hand job, and I told him that it hurts and not to push my head down like that anymore altho he continued. But even tho I said yes to having sex with him, would that still be considered stautory rape?

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icecreambar


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what is stautory?

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SheMintsEclectic


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It depends on your state. Though in most states 16 is the consenting age.

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yes.

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If you're under the age of consent. Statutory rape doesn't imply forcing anything on you. All it means is technically, by [state] statutes, you raped someone/got raped because you weren't the proper age to give consent in sound mind. Though it does sound like he was forcing you to do things you wouldn't otherwise do.

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Just get over it you dosy bint. You should have kicked his ass but you didn't

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jujube 91


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Technically no. You were of consenting age, and he technically didn't physically force you to do anything. He sounds like he was being a dick and manipulated you, but it's not rape.
If you need anyone to talk to about him, feel free to PM me. I have similar experiences with this sort of thing and I'd be more than happy to help any way I can. Sorry sweetie :(

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NiceGuyKSU


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In most states "rape" means forcing someone to have intercourse. <br> Forcing someone into oral sex would be "sexual assault" <br> Statutory rape involves someone of a certain age having sex with someone under age with consent. The statutory rape laws very from state to state. In Kansas, there are two different scenarios that constitute statutory rape. <br> #1 if someone is under 16 it is illegal <br> #2 if the younger person is under 18 and the older person is over 19, it is illegal.

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Raymond


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You two obviously were in bed naked, then you not only said no to sex but also to just bringing him off. I don't blame him for thinking that if he just kept trying you wanted to have sex. You have some growing up to do.

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no, i dont reckon so... also you are responsible for your own actions

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sue his ass off, say exactly what you just said to the police and sue his hass off

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yes, regardless of you agreeing or not, it is statutory rape. You can definitely file a case against him. It would put him in prison for like 5+ years.

Well... if you do file a case against him, might be a good idea to get a restraining order too because you just ruined his life:P


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Shogun villimax


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I think hes just a jerk.

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