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Christian girls help, please
Replies: 5Last Post Dec. 1, 2008 9:18pm by jacowy
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I'd really appreciate the opinions of some christian girls around here.

I am an atheist, but I go to my church for many youth activities and am very involved as a musician, and everyone knows me and I'm just another one of the gang...no one knows I'm an atheist. NO one, at all, anywhere. And my new girlfriend is a devout Christian, and I feel like I should tell her how I feel, but I'm really afraid that she'll let her religious indoctrination control her into thinking I'm evil or I'll lead her astray or something. I am a moral and compassionate person, and I'm sure anyone would say I'm a good guy if you asked them. So shouldn't it be alright if I don't believe in Christianity? Or will she follow the Christian code and decide that either A) I must sincerely convert or B) She has to get out of the relationship for her faith's sake.

:( Funny how religion can actually destroy human compassion (NOT funny, really)

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Well, is she really into it?

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You are just going to have to ask her.

I am a Christian and my boyfriend isn't religious, but it doesn't matter to me. I love him anyway.

She might care, she might not. You'll just need to find out.


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Quote: from Malignant Melanoma at 9:08 pm on Dec. 1, 2008

Well, is she really into it?

Yeah, she does Young Life stuff and her mom is a Young Life leader...I think it is in her PERSONALITY to be tolerant of my beliefs and not care, but I think it is in her INDOCTRINATION and BRAINWASHING to lose me. So it's a battle between her as a person and those around her that want her to conform :(

I just dont know which way it'll go. Religion can really warp people's actions...

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Quote: from jacowy at 9:15 pm on Dec. 1, 2008

Quote: from Malignant Melanoma at 9:08 pm on Dec. 1, 2008

Well, is she really into it?

Yeah, she does Young Life stuff and her mom is a Young Life leader...I think it is in her PERSONALITY to be tolerant of my beliefs and not care, but I think it is in her INDOCTRINATION and BRAINWASHING to lose me. So it's a battle between her as a person and those around her that want her to conform :(

I just dont know which way it'll go. Religion can really warp people's actions...


How long have you been dating?


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about a month and a half? Well, a month we dated in private, and became official about two weeks ago.

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