My aunt thinks I'm expecting a superstar for a boyfriend. I just want someone who is good looking and not picky. All the guys in Philly who have spoken to me isn't anyone I would like to date. Most people here I know smoke weed, which I don't and drink, which I don't. I just want some like me. Who won't pressure me for sex after a week of hanging out. Most guy who try to talk to me looks 30 when they are really 5-10 years younger. I don't want some looking like my father. I'm 18 and people think I look 14/15. I just want to chill out with hook up some but not go all the way but my aunt is saying I'm being unrealistic. I feel that I'm not. She also say snobby( cant spell that B work for stuck up)black guys and white guys that I like wont even look at me because I'm not a fucking size 2. I just have standards and I guess they are uptight but I don't want to have sex with some guy a week after I met them. I'm a virgin and I plan to stay that way.

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Either appearance matters or it doesn't. Can't cut it both ways.

And you might want to relax the whole "can't drink or smoke" thing. Is it really a big deal?

You should just be happy as you are, or change your ways so that you are happy.

Just don't let your Aunt pressure you into anything you're not happy with, sit her down and tell her what you think, hope for and expect. B

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Isn't it a bit hypocritical to demand a boyfriend that is "good looking", but complain when guys don't like you because you're overweight?

Either appearance matters or it doesn't. Can't cut it both ways.

And you might want to relax the whole "can't drink or smoke" thing. Is it really a big deal?

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YES- I don't approve of it.

I'm not overweight. I'm not a size two though. okay i may find one guy not cute to me but may be cute to you...get what im say.


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Quote: from SpM at 2:43 pm on Sep. 5, 2008

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Isn't it a bit hypocritical to demand a boyfriend that is "good looking", but complain when guys don't like you because you're overweight?  

 Either appearance matters or it doesn't. Can't cut it both ways.  

 And you might want to relax the whole "can't drink or smoke" thing. Is it really a big deal?

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YES- I don't approve of it.

I'm not overweight. I'm not a size two though. okay i may find one guy not cute to me but may be cute to you...get what im say.

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are you sure? look yourself up:
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i do think you have unrealistic expectations xx

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YES- I don't approve of it.

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I'm not overweight. I'm not a size two though. okay i may find one guy not cute to me but may be cute to you...get what im say.

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I'm still not getting your logic. It's fine for you to refuse to date someone because of their appearance, and yet it's not alright for a guy to refuse to date you because of your size.

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this ^

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I'm still not getting your logic. It's fine for you to refuse to date someone because of their appearance, and yet it's not alright for a guy to refuse to date you because of your size.

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ughhh I HAVE A DIFFERENT UNDERSTANDING OF CUTE OR HANDSOME THAN MY AUNT DOES! SHE LIKES TALL DARK SKINNED GUYS AND NEVER DATES OUTSIDE HER RACE. I LIKE LIGHT SKINNED GUYS, HISPANIC AND WHITE GUYS. she thinks white guys wont look at me unless im a black girl looking white with bone straight hair...she said this not me.

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YES- I don't approve of it.

I'm not overweight. I'm not a size two though. okay i may find one guy not cute to me but may be cute to you...get what im say.

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....you really are overweight, wayyyy over....

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I LIKE LIGHT SKINNED GUYS, HISPANIC AND WHITE GUYS.

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You stick to your preference; I'll stick to mine.

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Quote: from browneyes at 8:11 pm on Sep. 5, 2008

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I LIKE LIGHT SKINNED GUYS, HISPANIC AND WHITE GUYS.

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AND I LIKE THIN CHICKS WITH ASSES THAT LOOK GREAT IN SKINNY JEANS.

You stick to your preference; I'll stick to mine.

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yes but im saying i dont want a guy who is 20 look 30 and that drinks smoke and gets high. i want someone to hangout and not expect me to spread my legs.

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Why can't you just meet a guy and accept him for who he is? Setting up a neurotic set of rules about how people can and can't act is not going to encourage any guy to like you.

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I just don't want a guy to think I'm going to have sex with him the first night just because he's use to it. Weed and liquor bothers a lot. so why date some who is like that. im talking about my aunt who think i should just accept this...

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