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I've made a REALLY big mistake :(
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Replies: 13Last Post Sep. 5 1:30pm by xdark bluex
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Well, thanks for clicking on this topic to begin : ]
A while ago, back in march one of my best guy mates told me how he really felt about me, he told me how he'd always seemed to 'love' me since we first met in our first year at high school (we're now in our last year), and the funny thing was i felt EXACTLY the same. A few weeks later he asked me out and i said no, i didn't feel like a relationship at the time, couldn't cope with the responsibility and whatever, my feelings for him were still as strong as ever though. We stayed 'best-friends' after, and had our usual laughs with everything being back to normal, however he hinted about going out again in june, and i kinda ignored it still not feeling like a relationship, and told him this. (Sorry if this is confusing!) Well anyway, 3 or so months on we've gone really 'cold' towards each other, he told one of my friends he thought nothing was guna happen between us so hed just give up and try to let me go so to speak. Ironically, right now i love him more than ever. He doesn't know this and the way we act towards each other is as if we're barely even friends. i don't get to see him as much either due to the new school timetables for our last year, and i don't even think he feels anything for me now :S

PLEASE help me, What should i do? Should i just go with the flow and try and forget about him? Talk to him? I know this is pretty much all my own fault, but he's such a gentleman i really don't want to let him go  

Thankyou so very very very much for reading all of that! Feel free to ask any questions, i'm writing this quickly so i understand if it gets confusing!
xxxxx


12:49 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
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You really have nothing to lose by talking to him about your feelings. Go for it.

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Elm


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It is obvious.  Tell him.


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doritoz723


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aww!  Thats really sad!  I bet if you went up and opened up to him a little bit, he would reconsider.  If he was thinking about you for that long, I bet he's hesitant about letting you go.  You may have to do some apologizing, but thats not a big surprise.

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Tell him your'e ready for a relationship then

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lovemetwicetoday


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Don't try and forget about him, pursue it...  First off you shouldn't of said no if you felt the same way for him as he did you, did you explain to him that you didn't feel like a relationship?  Does he know how you feel about him?  The only reason he barely speaks to you now is because he's trying to get over you, and if he loves you then that's practically fucking impossible unless he isn't speaking to you much at all.  I think you should talk to him, explain how you feel and how you've always felt for him and you won't go far wrong.

Feel free to PM me...

Post edited at 12:55 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 by lovemetwicetoday

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tennisplayerV2


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just tell him how u feel ther is nothing to lose i mean think about it...he says yes and go out with him...he says no and you guys are cold with eachother like always...the end

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go tell him

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LEONIDOS

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talk to him  ask him out prob what hes waiting for

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Thankyou all so so much, xx
I guess i'll talk to him, weekend now though, gives me a chance to think over how i'm going to word everything! Wish me luck, Thankyou again x

12:58 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
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just ask him out and see what he say now cause bein a guy and eveything hell take time to think bout it but hell say yes

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tell him

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nik1


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Are you nuts?

Jeez.....what kind of mental games are you playing.  You are playing with his head and yours too.  Are you a psycho?

The only way to fix it is to admit fault, ask him to forgive you, tell him how you feel and ask him to please give you an opportunity to make it up.


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awww don't listen nik1. He's an ass. Your just confused. =]
but thats what is exactly happening to me and my bestfriend. Except I'm the guy. And she only loves me as a friend. =[ she moved oit of her rents house ad they turned off her phone. And they don't have the net where she lives. So we only talk once every 2 weeks. =[ she's gonna start writing me soon. She wont go with me bc I'm not cute enough. =[ the last time she saw me I was really fat. I've lost alot of weight since then. She didn't say thats why she won't go with me. But I know thats it. =[ *sigh*

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