but i guess my real question is.
Do guys honestly care about a female's weight?

EDIT:  But not every guy likes the stereotypical girl like you think.  There is someone out there for everyone.

Post edited at 1:54 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 by 2kewl4u2know

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"Energizer Bunny arrested, charged with battery."

That's what a lot of my guy friends have told me. No one is overly anorexic looking or overly obese.

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The mind may forget, but the heart always remembers.
No matter what I say, I realize I am a sexy beautiful talented lady.
"Lemmings."-Edited by TLM 1/4/09 at 04:52 Central

Well, I can't speak for everyone of course, but certainly I do. Sexual attraction is a large part of a relationship for me, and since I'm not sexually attracted to women who are slightly(+) overweight, that's pretty much a deal breaker.

Edit: But that's not to say that you should change, you see.  There ARE guys out there that are completely okay with certain higher weights.  The most important thing, and I seriously mean this, is that you are *comfortable* with yourself.  If you're comfortable with yourself, then you will eventually find someone who will take an interest in you.  Without being comfortable with yourself, there's a lot more issues than just weight, ya know?

Post edited at 1:57 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 by The Professional

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Yes.

Well, I can't speak for everyone of course, but certainly I do. Sexual attraction is a large part of a relationship for me, and since I'm not sexually attracted to women who are slightly(+) overweight, that's pretty much a deal breaker.

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I agree here , although looks aren't everything you still need to be attracted to the person in the first place.

The reason you're so self conscious is probably because of that extra weight your carrying.... At least weight isn't something you're stuck with, you can always change that.

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"She lies and says she's in love with him, can't find a better man".

But in real life, wha i really fall for are girls who are a couple of years older than me, really short, a little chubby, brunettes, blue eyes and generally aent very pretty.

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Future. Sex. Love. Sound.
Just tell me which way you like it.

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A guy that is not stuck up his own arse normally doesn't care and if you did find someone who did care then there are definitely not the right man!

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This just isn't true.

Why is it that if a guy does not like EVERY kind of female, they are stuck up their own ass?  Are you attracted to EVERY type of male?