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( Greater than Angels )
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I have been with my boyfriend off and on since late June now, and already he's talking about having sex. He wants to do it very badly, not right now, but maybe in several months or something like that... I have Asperger's Syndrome, so I don't have very many friends and to be honest, I only went out with him in the first place because I have absolutely no one else who will.. but I like him a lot, and I think he loves me too, but I honestly have no interest in sex at this point in time. We are both virgins, but I am very young and I just can't shake the feeling that if I do it now, I will deeply regret it. But... how do I tell him I don't want anything to do with sex without frustrating him or hurting his feelings? I absolutely despise girls AND guys who lose it very young, so I don't want to be one of them... Post edited at 1:49 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 by Greater than Angels
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7hir7een
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Just talk to him. Be honest. Let him know that you aren't ready for it, and if he loves you, he will understand.
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This has been a complete intelligence failure of massive proportions.
Has the Large Hadron Collider destroyed the earth yet?
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tinkerbell15
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be honest
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words hurt... my arms will tell you
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missy0719
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well i been with my bf lat july and we already had sex and i think that why we not really in love anymore
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have fun before you die!
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MystiqueBeauty16
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Tbh, you never should have gone out with him just because he was the only one who would go out with you. In the end, you're just going to end up hurting each other and if you really don't like him or don't feel attracted to him in that way, you might want to end it before it gets any worse.
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The mind may forget, but the heart always remembers.
No matter what I say, I realize I am a sexy beautiful talented lady.
"Lemmings."-Edited by TLM 1/4/09 at 04:52 Central
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Silver Shinigami
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if yuo feel you should wait then wait. Tell him what your feeling and hope he will wait for you.
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Shinigami has spoken.Deal with it!http://kay-lin.myminicity.com/
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Chasey
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Just tell him that you're not ready =) If he's a decent guy he'll respect that.
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Her rugged ghetto whore ;)
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1:49 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 | Joined Sep. 2008 | 88 Days Active
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SamanthaUKA
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7hir7een is absolutely correct.
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Remember I will always love you, as I claw your f*cking throat away.
It will end no other way.
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Chava
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Don't do something you're not comfortable with. There are always people who will accept you for who you are you just have to be patient and find them.
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I couldn't think of anything else.
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KatieKaBOOM
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just write everything you are feeling on paper and then read it to him that way you make sure you tell him everything you want to and then he might not be as mad seeing that you really have put that much time into thinking about this!
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Never shield your oddness, but wear your oddness like a shield.
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TheAntiBarbie
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Just tell him what you're feeling. Say that you're not ready. If he cares about you he'll understand.
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