Lets get some background, I've liked this girl for a good bit over 3 years now. We're really good friends too, but over the summer with how busy we were, and are, never saw each other, now I've started actually losing some weight, I wasn't fat, but I was a bit chubby, you can only tell cause I have a baby face goin kinda, or of course if my shirt is off, otherwise I look just big as in strong (I've been asked many a time if i play football, and I just smile and go "nope, golf!"). But I've grown a beard which makes my face look less baby face-like. Now some tell me to shave the beard, others say they like it, course I'm going off on a different tangent which seems disconnected from my original predicament. So being as how I haven't seen her in 2 months, aside from a brief moment in the hall where she just went "what is this?" as she rubbed my beard. But, I just think if I get all my shit together (school, was depressed, now I'm kinda better, I have a friendlier disposition now, etc) that I could just call her up be like "heeyy, lets hang out this weekend, I haven't seen you in forever," then just hang out talk, suddenly at least I'm not chubby, hoping I end up looking a lot better? But then the next weekend or a couple after doing the same thing and asking her out.
Basically it comes down to, would she see me as the "changed/new" me since it would have been essentially 4-5 months and perhaps lend me consideration, or would she still see me as the only good for friendship guy I used to be?
I hope that makes sense, and sorry its so long.
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