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Replies: 11Last Post Sep. 9, 2008 1:18pm by Glow Worm
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(serious people only, please)

How do I tell my mother I may have been date raped and I need to take a pregnancy test? I don't want her to dismiss me as overreacting, and I have no clue how to bring it up. Also, I'm afraid that she'll completely freak out, and regardless of being pregnant or not, she might never let me out of her sight again.

I'm just so scared. If I am pregnant, I'm in my second month, and I just started getting very nauseous. I've also had headaches, a break out, and my boobs are slightly, slightly bigger.

And I don't know if she'll agree with my choice of what to do if I am pregnant.

Guys, I'm really freaking out. If anyone has an experience with something like this, please, please, post here or PM me.

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Pdiamond


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how old are you?

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inachair


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the truth shall set you free...just tell the truth and she cant do anything to reverese it so shell just have to deal with it...dont bring it up as causal though. ask your parents if you can talk withthem

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uwastedmyheart

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Just tell her like it is. But what the hell do you mean as "maybe" date raped?

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Quote: from uwastedmyheart at 5:57 pm on Sep. 5, 2008

Just tell her like it is. But what the hell do you mean as "maybe" date raped?

Like, I may have been drugged, but due to that, I kind of don't remember anything. And there's a bunch of other stuff and it's all just too weird to be coincidences.

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Sit your om down just you and her and explain to her exactly what happened. Be ready to deal with a freak out.

If she doesn't agree with your choice ask her to please just be supportive. If she isn't then so what. Do what you think is right.

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You need to tell her immediately. It doesn't matter if she gets mad right now. You need to find out.

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Quote: from Pdiamond at 5:56 pm on Sep. 5, 2008

how old are you?

15

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Hell yea man

good job dave manseph

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SimplisticComplexity


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Can't you pick one up yourself?  Or maybe get a friend to pick one up for you?  

Post edited at 6:25 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 by SimplisticComplexity

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If you are pregnant, she'll find out sooner or later.

Still, if you're not, it's better if you can obtain a pregnancy test some other way and find out for sure.  Why worry her needlessly, if you end up not being pregnant?  Can't your therapist buy you one for you?

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Or you could go and get one yourself, find out if you're actually pregnant, and then decide what to tell her from there.

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