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my ex getting raped.
Replies: 8Last Post Sep. 5, 2008 2:40pm by Al Legator
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my girlfriend said she got raped by her step dad and im alllllllllll the way in maryland and she allllll the way in california im in college and last night she broke up with me well she told me that he had did that and i dont even know how to cope someone with rape wth can i say to her ??


she cud be lying shes been telling me this but for some reason i just dont believe her well just in case im wrong WHAT TO DO TO HELP?


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i would just ignor her
unless you might move back to cali some day

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KatieKaBOOM


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you are in college now in california....forget about her.

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tinkerbell15


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call cps

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LEONIDOS

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tell her to call police and support her

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jamesshadowwolf

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tell her everythign you just said here. everything... hope she understands... ( except the part about you thinkign she lying. )

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stay away from her stepdad

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aGIRLunknown

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The number one reason rape victims don't tell anyone is out of fear no one will believe them..... Number 2 reason would be afraid the rapist will come back for them

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Al Legator


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She told you for a reason. Sometimes that kind of thing is because the person telling it wants someone else to take action because they can't or won't.

As far as supporting her, do you want to? If so, call a local (to you) women's centre, hospital or  government medical clinic and ask for advice on that. Should you call the police in her town and have them investigate? I would do that but there will be a cost: She may become angry even if she subconsciously wanted someone to do something. Would that bother you?

You know her, you know how old she is (if she's a minor DO call the police or her local CPS regardless). They can do an investigation but will not reveal where the information came from. Your ex would likely figure it out so you are going to have to decide what to do as far as reporting it.

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