Let's assume there's a guy. He's rather funny, and really nice. Everyone seems to like him, and he's fairly average looking, and about average height. You learn that he has a huge crush on you.  

You love the guy's personality, but there's just one catch. He's overweight. My question is, at what point does the amount that he weighs make him not worth dating, in your opinion?

Edit: His weight is almost all or completely fat.

Post edited at 9:35 pm on Sep. 6, 2008 by Sarge

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I know it's shallow, but I just couldn't date a guy who had the power to kill me by suffocation in bed.

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But if it's over 225 of JUST fat, then no

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But the actual size and appearance of the person wouldn't make a difference.  If I come to love his personality, then that's really all there is to it.  However, in terms of personality, someone that just continues eating that much, doesn't move, and doesn't care about his weight isn't someone that I think would match me in terms of personality... if that makes sense.

But if I loved the personality and I felt he could be a potential husband, then the weight wouldn't matter.

I was expecting more votes, too, though.

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Post edited at 12:17 am on Sep. 7, 2008 by letter 5

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Not worth dating?  He's is a human with a heart, lung, eyes, ears, nose, brain, arms and legs.  He has feelings! Who are you to establish his worth?  

How would you like to know that someone thinks you are not WORTH dating?

Do him a really HUGE favor and DON'T go with him unless you are going to forget about his size and forget about caring about what others think.  He knows he's fat and the last thing he needs is someone else to tell him that he's unworthy of dating you.

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My question is, at what point does the amount that he weighs make him not worth dating, in your opinion?  

Not worth dating? He's is a human with a heart, lung, eyes, ears, nose, brain, arms and legs. He has feelings! Who are you to establish his worth?

How would you like to know that someone thinks you are not WORTH dating?

Do him a really HUGE favor and DON'T go with him unless you are going to forget about his size and forget about caring about what others think. He knows he's fat and the last thing he needs is someone else to tell him that he's unworthy of dating you.

 

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I don't think they're saying he's not worth dating, it's just not someone they would date. It's not their fault they're not attractive to people who could suffocate them...