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apetape
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I take it you are young.
Just let things flow.
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patience is key =D
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10:15 pm on Sep. 6, 2008 | Joined Feb. 2007 | 204 Days Active
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ericaj 2393
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tell him that you as much as a person as him and he needs to make up his mind...but if he has a drinking problem i wouldnt even bother
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if you're going to cut me make it painfull!
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shialover027
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wait wat? pm me and explain
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Twist3dHop3s
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ummm, call, text or w.e if you want. You should really think if he has a drinking problem, if you really want him.
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"I love the name of honor more than I fear death. Veni, Vedi, Vici. "
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letter 5
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Okay, well....if I were in your position, I would take his behavior as an annoyance to be quite honest. It's a pain to sit and wait around, wondering whether someone's really that interested. He is coming and going, physically there but not emotionally. That is not fair. You can really end up getting hurt if you let this go too far without him establishing how he actually feels. You could end up being used for physical satisfaction. So I suggest, despite what he says, that you ask him to tell you what he wants. You don't have to be mean to get your point across. It's as simple as saying "Hey, I like you, and would totally be interested in dating you, but I need to know what your feelings are. Do you like me, do you share the same feelings? I am just looking for honesty here, because if you're really not ready to be in a relationship then that's all I need to hear." If he continues to beat around the bush, and/or avoid your questions, then you need to take that as a sign that he is not worth it. If he really can't figure it out then he is obviously not ready for anything beyond a physical relationship or friendship. You may like this guy, but prepare yourself for whatever he has to say (or doesn't have to say)...most importantly, look out for yourself here, don't be anyone's toy.
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Hate is like acid; It destroys the object on which it is poured and the vessel in which it is stored.
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12:08 am on Sep. 7, 2008 | Joined Aug. 2004 | 240 Days Active
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