we've been together for 21 months this friday. Thats a long time.
We havnt had sex at all, ive asked her 2 seperate times if she wanted to, and she kind of avoided it.
Now, the last boyfriend she had sex with (he was her first) they used to have sex like, 12 times a week.
So wtf? she says she loves me more than him, and im so much of a better boyfriend than him, what makes me so different that she's avoiding sex?
5:02 pm on Sep. 6, 2008
plumc0la
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Maybe she cares about you more and doesn't want thing to change because of sex.
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Maybe she cares about you more and doesn't want thing to change because of sex.
exactly
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Maybe she cares about you more and doesn't want thing to change because of sex.
this
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seekingsimplicity
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maybe she's worried she'll be more vulnerable after she has had sex with you. just talk about it straight with her. ask her, and when she says no, explain your concerns as you have to us.
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josphat10101
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Its possible she has bad memories from when she had sex with her last boyfriend and doesnt want to go through it again.
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agerask
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maybe she's a born again virgin. maybe she's doing that because she really cares about you. i wouldn't know, i haven't had sex before so idk about the aftereffects.
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